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ttistin
10-07-2003, 07:28 AM
Yea another one lol Well yesterday was my MIL's birthday, so this SIL calls me on sunday to see if we are going over cause she is going to make dinner and cake for MIL birthday. Well yea we are going over, it is my dh's mother:rolleyes: So we get over there last night and omg I tell you no one wanted to eat anything {she is a bad cook lol}


Anyway My kids know that they cant get the little legos out with tori there, she will be 2 end of the month. She still likes to put some little things in her mouth, She has learned not to put coins in her mouth but she hasnt been around the little legos. We dont have any at our house. SIL's two kids dump out a huge thing of little legos without anyone knowing, well tori comes out with a couple in her hand. ok I think she must have found them somewhere right, well a little while later she comes out with one in her mouth. MIL askes what it is I tell her, I say I am not sure where she is getting them cause the boys know not to get them out. Well SIL goes why is she putting them in her mouth, I say well she is still a baby and babys do put things in their mouths!! She goes well why dont you watch her. My kids know what not to get into over there, Yes tori is a baby still but she knows not to get into things like that. Plus MIL puts those up because they make such a mess, and the kids dont like to pick them up.

Another part of this vent happend last night there also, After sil started her crap dh and I decided to go home. It was already 7:30 and Tristian had to go to bed for school today. I say to him {in the other room then sil} that we have to go home because he has to get up early, a diffrent sil askes why he was crying I say because nat and alec where there and he wanted to play. I hear from older SIL Oh Lynne dont say that you have to go because MY kids are here!! WHAT?!?! Boy did I set her straight on that point. She doesnt get that maybe her kids dont have to get on the bus till 8:30 but my son has to get on the buss at 7:30. He has to get up at 7 to be ready. He cant stay up till 10 or 11 and still get up fine like her kids. Tristian is used to a regular bed time.

She is always doing stuff like this on a holiday or whenever we all get togeather. She HAS to be center of attention and be right about everything. I just cant believe she had to start her crap on her own mothers birthday. After we left I felt so sorry for MIL that when we got home I called and I talked to dh's youngest sis, we had gotten MIL some bath stuff, and she was already using it :D lol



Oh yea you would think that having two kids you would know about little things and how babys like to put things in their mouths right? Yea This sil wants to have ANOTHER kid, with no money, she just quit a good job to go work at a pizzaria so she can get more money from the state {{food stamps, help with rent, and electric and who knows what else}} plus she went back to school {for the 8+ time} so she is getting financial aid also. I think they only want anther kid is to get more from the state, and more back in tax refund. Good reason huh. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:



Sorry this is so long, I just had to get it out.

zitra
10-07-2003, 07:40 AM
I feel for you. All I can say is some people just don't get it.

DAVESBABYDOLL
10-07-2003, 07:55 AM
{{{HUGS}}}

ttistin
10-07-2003, 08:11 AM
ya know we really try not to get into it with her, ya just cant win or get your point across with her. SO we dont bother, dh already said IF she is there on thanksgiving we are not going just because she likes to start crap.

it is when she starts her crap with MY kids or the way we raise them. My kids have manners, they all say please, thank you, excuse me {yes even the baby} Her kids dont know the meaning of the words, They all accuse me and my kids of taking their toys and such, and then when they do find what we supposably{sp} took they dont even say sorry or anything.

Yea and I am supposed to listen to her about the way I raise my kids??:rolleyes:

momfromTN
10-07-2003, 08:17 AM
She is disgusting. Don't feed into her delusions.

nosamiam
10-07-2003, 10:18 AM
Thank god I don't have any SIL's I have to deal with! sheww

intimidator329
10-07-2003, 11:54 AM
Originally posted by ttistin
Yea another one lol
She is always doing stuff like this on a holiday or whenever we all get togeather. She HAS to be center of attention and be right about everything.

Yea This sil wants to have ANOTHER kid, with no money, she just quit a good job to go work at a pizzaria so she can get more money from the state {{food stamps, help with rent, and electric and who knows what else}} plus she went back to school {for the 8+ time} so she is getting financial aid also. I think they only want anther kid is to get more from the state, and more back in tax refund. Good reason huh. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

ya know we really try not to get into it with her, ya just cant win or get your point across with her. SO we dont bother, dh already said IF she is there on thanksgiving we are not going just because she likes to start crap.


Sorry this is so long, I just had to get it out.

Ya know, I think your sil and mine are twin. Sounds TTTTOOOOOOOOOOO much our QUEEN B!!!.
I know exactly what you're going through.
{{{hugs}}}}