feeling really low...

[Unicornmom77]

I have 5 days left in the AM till I have this baby and nothing is getting done:( because i am in so much pain and my DH just wont help me, i ask him and he says he will, but then doesnt. my mom says she cant help because she is in too much pain, i am sure she is but damnit this baby is coming and i need some damn help...i have no friends:( and god forbid the church have anyone help me(i have asked repetedly). i am so tired i just want to crawl under a rock and stay there. kids are driving me nuts because they know they can and it sucks. i just wish i could hasome help even just for a couple of hrs. i cant clean tub or toliet (TMI) or the kitchen floor, i cant clean closets, bags and boxes to friggin heavy

i am at a loss of what to do. i guess i will just keep trying, but it is harder each day

thanks for listening, i am soooooooo depressed and stressed :(

please pray for me and my family


thank you

[DAVESBABYDOLL]

where in Kentucky are you? I'm in Ohio, my best friend and I want to take a road trip...we'll come help you ! I'm serious!!

[Dolly<3]

((((unicorn)))) Your hubby should SO be helping you!! :mad: I would say stop doing everything and let him deal with it, but I guess you have to keep your home sanitary for your kids. I don't know what you can do besides keep asking hubby to help. :(

[Dolly<3]

Originally posted by DAVESBABYDOLL
where in Kentucky are you? I'm in Ohio, my best friend and I want to take a road trip...we'll come help you ! I'm serious!!

Awww, that's so sweet!!

[Unicornmom77]

DAVESBABYDOLL we live in Owensboro Ky look it up on mapquest...when can you be here!! I would love it! LOL Even if ya cant you made me smile for saying so!! thanks

[Unicornmom77]

bless you chelle!! thanks

[jcw]

I had forgotten that you live in owensboro.Not to far away from me wish i could help but right now i'm busy taking care of my mom but i hope things lets up for you real soon . Good luck with the baby

[jcw]

I had forgotten that you live in owensboro.Not to far away from me wish i could help but right now i'm busy taking care of my mom but i hope things lets up for you real soon . Good luck with the baby

DAVESBABYDOLL that is so nice of you

[ImaGApeach]

I am so sorry Unicornmom77 that you are dealing with this right now but worrying will not be good for the baby-Do you think if you just quit doing it your dh would see that he had to do it? I wish I could help more. Sending lots of hugs your way-I hope everything gets better for you.

[twinfawn]

(((((((((((((((((((Unicornmom77))))))))))))))))))) )) I would be there in a sec to help you if you lived in Texas.....Too bad you live so far away..:( I hope you are able to get some help.

[momfromTN]

Your DH needs a good swift kick in the A$$! How dare him not help you keep your place decent when you are carrying HIS child!

[DivineMsDi]

U are just getting your nesting instincts kicking in...I hope your other kids are able to help a little bit. I am not sure how old they are but even 4 year olds and up can do things like throw out their own trash (use paper plates and cups) and pick up their own toys. Your DH should help you a bit to do the heavy cleaning.

I was mopping the day before I went into labor...I liked cleaning being pregnant, but only mopping. I did not gain much weight, so I didn't have that center of gravity problem.

The tubs and floors will be there..you need to take time for yourself. Get your other kids together and if you can explain how Mommy needs help now, maybe they will (unless they are just too young).

Good luck. Don't be too hard on yourself...those hormones are a pain!

[tiffany21]

Unicornmom77 hugs sweetie. I wish I lived closer to come help you out.

[PreciousDarlin]

Unicornmom77, I live in Hanson, KY and if it were where I could come help, I would. But between work and my kids (ages 3years and 9 months) I can hardly find time to sleep. Besides, I just found out today that there might something wrong with my daughter, so I have to take her to the doctor. I'm sorry you can't find anyone around there to help and it really sucks that the people in the church can't find time to help you either. I really wish I could help. But just relax and try to stay as calm as possible with your kids and the rest of your pregnancy will be soooo much better.

[Unicornmom77]

THANKS SO MUCH, GOD BLESS YOU ALL! I feel a bit better today, I got some sleep, who knew how much sleep deprivation can throw you off. I still need help, but I am just gonna have to do the bast I can!!

Thanks again!