yyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!

[lilbugger]

I havent been around a long but the time I have, It just seems like theres a lot of BULLCHITTERS on here, NOT all, but some and you all know who you are, and have to deal with your lies. And let me tell you some people can really come up with off the wall stuff. And the sad thing is you probably believe yourself of the lies. Im not here to start trouble but come on people there alot of you that feel the same way I do. It seems that the same people just post BAD things that happen to them in theres lives. (dont these people ever have good things happen to them). :confused: I understand these boards are here, and thats the way some can get there frustation(sp) out and so forth, but I think some just go OVER BOARD!!!

IF ANYONE FEELS THE NEED TO FLAME GO FOR IT, THIS IS JUST HOW I SEE IT.:rolleyes: :) :o :eek:

[katzenberg]

why do you say that.

[cpbaby]

I tend to agree also. Thats one reason I dont post much about my life. When I do, I seldom get much reaction. But the ones who are ALWAYS having something wrong, they get BUNCHES of reactions.

[MsLynn]

<~~agrees with CPBABY and may i say


DITTO!!!

[MommyG3]

You are right. I agree, some folks just don't have any luck.

[NASCAR38]

AMEN ;)




COWS MAY COME AND COWS MAY GO BUT THE BULL GOES ON FOREVER ..

[katzenberg]

ok i see what you are saying but isnt this what this bard for.

[katzenberg]

board for

[Angelseyes28]

*I see dead people*:eek::p

[DreamWarrior]

It sux when ppl lie so much they believe themselves....

[Angelseyes28]

Originally posted by cjc5263
You are bad!!!!!

And that's not a good thing?:p Besides I'm not bad, just outspoken;)

[ahippiechic]

This forum is here for us b!tch, whine & moan about anything that bothers us. I have enough TRUE chit to b!tch about, I don't need to make up lies. ;)

[jasmine]

why do you say people lie?
Who's lying?
And how do you know that they are lying?

[justme23]

Originally posted by jasmine
why do you say people lie?
Who's lying?
And how do you know that they are lying?


Nobody knows that anyone is lying... I think the point is, some ppl have a new tragedy in their life everyday and sometimes it makes it hard to believe... Most of us have 2 or 3 'tragedies' a month and wonder how we'd ever make it through another (and don't even post half of them out of fear ppl will think this way about us) and some ppl have a new one everyday... sometimes it makes it hard to believe... ya know? I don't think she was saying it about anyone inparticular, tho.

[~MK~]

Originally posted by angelseyes28
*I see dead people*:eek::p

http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons/54.gif



So do I...:eek:

[MrsSpeed]

Some people could really give Manda a run for her money. LOL!! I really think that some people like to stir the chit pot. Then there are others who like to dish out their advice and point fingers. :rolleyes: I don't post in V/W very often. But seems that some live in this forum. LOL!! I'm glad I lead a relatively boring life.

[tiffany21]

everyone here has something they want to wine and vent about in their life how do we know they are lieing we don't but we post and give our support to them.

WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE ANYONE ON THE BOARDS.

[~MK~]

OOOH OOOH!! I KNOW!! I KNOW!!! :p

Too bad my fiction writer thread got closed. LOL

[DBackFan]

I think the whole point is no one here REALLY knows about anyone. Its your choice whether to respond with sympathy or whatever. I learned a long time ago you can never really trust anyone, even the ones closest to you. Sad but true. Thats not to say that I disbelieve what most say on here I just take it with a grain of salt! :)

[~MK~]

Originally posted by dianainaz
http://www.physiology.wisc.edu/ravi/agifs/ghost.gif

:eek: LMAO

[katzenberg]

come on dont start calling each ohter names or letting eacher other bothereach other if you arent intrest inthe post dont read them .i agree with tiffany 21 .maybe a person has had a lot of problems or not how are we to know who is lieing or not just let it go.to read or not ot read thats up to you

[LadyBones]

Originally posted by MommyG3
You are right. I agree, some folks just don't have any luck.

I also agree on that, As my MIL would tell us all the time "If we did'nt have bad luck we would have no Luck at all" and that is so true!

We have Bad luck writtin all over us ;)

[lilbugger]

Originally posted by tiffany21
everyone here has something they want to wine and vent about in their life how do we know they are lieing we don't but we post and give our support to them.

WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE ANYONE ON THE BOARDS.


Yes I understand that, but some just seem unbelieveable at times. IMHO some just add to what really happen thats all.

[lilbugger]

Originally posted by Machande_Kennels
OOOH OOOH!! I KNOW!! I KNOW!!! :p

Too bad my fiction writer thread got closed. LOL


I think you see where, Im coming from;)

[jasmine]

I guess I'm just not getting it, I can't say if people really lie or not to get attention? Some people go through a streak of tradgedies, bad luck or what ever you want to call it. And some, are stuck at home and this may be the only way for them to reach out or have something in there life that they look forward to doing is being here. I use to post on bbs {not on the vent and whine} ALL the time, cause this was my only place to reach out and talk to another person, feeling some kind of human contact. But, now since I go to school, I don't that much anymore.
I could vent and whine everyday just cause of the stuff that I am going through with my husband that left me....... you know, the self pity, poor me party. I just wanted someone to pat me on the back, anyone that cared about my situation or someone to go to with my prob. cause I felt that I had no~one. Some people, have no one, and it's nice to just have human contact. Atleast, that was my situation that I was going through for a while.
Maybe they should start a forum like, good things in my life, or blessings... whatever, instead of just a vent and whine, that way people could start posting about all the wonderful things that happen in there life, instead of just the bad stuff.

???????

anyways, see, I'm just rambling LOL

[Jaidness]

I agree Tiffany21 who are *we* to judge.Some people lie, others gossip,some point fingers,some start trouble,some offer support,some give hugs,some give advice.My mother always said if you don't have something nice to say then don't say anything at all.I have better things to do with my time then to figure out whos lying and whos not...who really cares, it's none of my business.

[morris2b]

"Life is like a box of chocolates"
Quote from Forest Gump

:D

[Maeryn]

Okay, I say we petition Alex for another forum...the "Vent/Whine Verification Forum". That will be for everybody posting in VW to post copies of police reports, medical test results, lay-off notices, death certificates, CPS court documents, and whatever else is needed to prove the validity of their VW posts.

Some people may get a kick out of creating drama, but for the most part we won't be able to know the truth about their situation unless we're there with them. And yes, sometimes a person's life really can be that screwed up. Unless we're out money, is it really that big of a deal? Even if the allegations over a certain person's demise are true...it was a messed up thing to do, and isn't right to get people that upset over nothing. But in the long run, there's a lot worse things that someone can do to get attention, and nobody's life was seriously disrupted.

I think the horse is dead by now, so maybe it's time to stop beating it?

[Tasha405]

Ok, I don't agree with people coming here to lie about major things thats going on in their life. If they feel the need to lie about anything on here just to get attention then I think they really need to talk to a dr or something.

However I do think that people should feel comfortable enough to post about whatever is bothering them. Thats what the v/w is for. I have had so much bad luck this year that its not even funny and I'd like to think that I can come here and post about it without being called a liar. I have no family close to me what so ever, so I come here to my BBS family. I understand that some people on here might not like me for whatever reason but I always try to be nice to everyone. I could come on here and post about so many other things that going on in my life as well, but I only post the big things or whats bothering me the most. It's nice to get hugs from friends and even people you don't know. It's just nice to know that someone may care even just a little bit. I guess all in all what I'm trying to say is that I hope the people that have posted lies doesn't ruin this place for everyone else. I'd like to think that no one has ever lied to me on here and I know some probably have, but either way I will offer them hugs and a shoulder to cry on if they need it. Ok, I am just rambling on and on. lol {{{everyone}}}

[Tasha405]

The issue is how do you deal with them?
Do you want to solve the problems? or just whine and get sympathy? I'd like to solve it and at the same time a good whine helps take stress off of me. So, I'll take a little of both please. :)

[bngomom]

I love reading the Vent and Whines. It makes my day that is lousy feel a little better. No, I don't believe everything I read but that is ok too. It makes for an interesting story. If you don't want to read it go to another section of the forum and check that out. I come here a couple of times a day because it is like reading soap operas. I wouldn't dream of posting some of the personal things I read but I sure do like to read when others post them.

[katzenberg]

this the reason i hardly post any more because i am afraid some person will say something about mewhat i posted and hurt my feelings or i will get mad .and it just not worth the hassle any more i thought this was suppost to be fun.not saying things about each other

[IFeelLucky]

Ok, If we see dead People does that mean there alive?

[~MK~]

Me thinks so..

http://www.physiology.wisc.edu/ravi/agifs/ghost.gif

[twinkiesmom]

http://www.smiliegenerator.de/s14/smilies-10409.png

this is the one I like.

[IFeelLucky]

This board could be called " As the Stomach Turns" I post all the time here and Im a puker.

[ahippiechic]

Originally posted by Tasha405
I'd like to solve it and at the same time a good whine helps take stress off of me. So, I'll take a little of both please. :)

Most of us are that way, Tasha! :) That's what this forum is for.

But if I think someone is feeding me a BIGBIG line of bullchit, I'll probably say so, especially if it's something like being dead, or things like that. Those post hurt the people on here who care about them, & with my BIGBIG mouth, I can't always keep quiet about it.

[tsquared]

i do think this vent and whine board is a good thing......i have known some out there that this is their only way of getting something off of their chest and need that before they do things that any person would regret. It could be someone that their significant other will not respond to or cant respond too....I would rather a drama be created then some other response that could be very threatening....sides guys we were given emotions and we LAUGH at the dramas and cry at the sadness......also have a thing called a mind to decide which it is......if drama is something that makes one feel better then so be it....Life goes on no matter if it is the truth or lie and guess what.......they have to live with it ........NOT ME!!

[lilbugger]

I wasnt really talking about anyone being dead. It just the people that start out being believeable and then they turn it into a big bullchit story.

Yes I understand people do have problems but, I think some just get a little carried away at times. IM not saying anyone in gerenal and yes some do have a bad luck day after day and I see that, and that is understandable.

There is just a few, that keeps going and adding to it that keep going until it gets to where it isn't believeable.Yes I could use the back button, but I am a caring person and would like to add my support if i can, but after awhile it's starts to get annoying, when it get strech way out from what really happen.
:rolleyes: :eek: :(

[Angelseyes28]

Originally posted by twinkiesmom
http://www.smiliegenerator.de/s14/smilies-10409.png

this is the one I like.


ROTF!! That is perfect! Can I be the little green one on the right holding the pole on the sign?;) :p :D

[kellybeebear]

I feel so freaking intrusive coming to vent whine anymore.

If I post something here, it is to get it off of my chest, maybe it makes me feel better typing it instead of saying it. I do not post for validation from anyone. This board in particular has helped me deal with some pretty rough things. Therefore, I am thankful for it.
Just in case though, I would be glad to post my sons death certificate.

And I do keep alot of things in that go on in my life. But now I need to give everyone a quickie update.
9-7-02 Jacob Dies
9-13-02 Bury Son
10-02 Husbands Father Died
02-03 Have to move because landord sold house. Given 3 day notice.
04-07-03 Husband lost job
04-25-03 Was driving and was involved in head on collision. My car was totalled.

There is lots more I can B!tch bout', but I think it is enough for now. Maybee I will post about some of the good things that are finally going our way later on.

Have a nice day, and nothing I said was intended at anyone, so please dont take it personal.

[Angelseyes28]

Originally posted by kellybeebear
I feel so freaking intrusive coming to vent whine anymore.

If I post something here, it is to get it off of my chest, maybe it makes me feel better typing it instead of saying it. I do not post for validation from anyone. This board in particular has helped me deal with some pretty rough things. Therefore, I am thankful for it.
Just in case though, I would be glad to post my sons death certificate.

And I do keep alot of things in that go on in my life. But now I need to give everyone a quickie update.
9-7-02 Jacob Dies
9-13-02 Bury Son
10-02 Husbands Father Died
02-03 Have to move because landord sold house. Given 3 day notice.
04-07-03 Husband lost job
04-25-03 Was driving and was involved in head on collision. My car was totalled.

There is lots more I can B!tch bout', but I think it is enough for now. Maybee I will post about some of the good things that are finally going our way later on.

Have a nice day, and nothing I said was intended at anyone, so please dont take it personal.

Oh hun please know that it was NOT you that was being referred to!! {{{{kelly}}}} I'm sooooo sorry for your loss and I don't think one single person on this board has ever doubted you on this. It is a horrible thing to lose a child and NEVER would anyone that I know here ever make light of it:( Please believe me on this. And I truly appologize if in any way I made you feel like I was referring to you!

[kellybeebear]

angelseyes28-
naw-you didn't do nothin.
I just think this chit is getting really old. This damn subject keeps popping up, and frankly it is annoying. No one is perfect.

I just would like one person to please show some kind of Degree or License that gives them the right to judge who is lying and who is telling the truth.

I am sorry if what I said pisses people off, but as ye old saying goes;
Better to be pissed off than.....well you all know the rest. LOL


CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG???

:)

[cpbaby]

Originally posted by kellybeebear


I just would like one person to please show some kind of Degree or License that gives them the right to judge who is lying and who is telling the truth.



I dont think anyone has the right to pass judgement on somone else just because they are having a rough time. EVERYONE has rough times. And they come in clusters it seems to me.

What I think is pitiful is when someone whines about something, say..... being so broke they cant buy something they desperatly need, then two days later thay are talking about how they spent, or ar gonna spend, a few thousand dollars on something that can be taken as frivolous. I have noticed several posts that contradict an earlier post by the poster. And its not just one person, its several. And, apparently, I am the only person who notices these things, cause everyone is like poor baby, what can we do, what do you need, let me help, when they cant afford a necessity, but then, two days(or whatever) later when they are spending all that money that they didnt have a couple of days ago on something that isnt really needed, the exact same people are sooo happy for them, instead of being suspicious. (did that make any sense?)

I use V/W and I think its a great place for airing your problems when you need someone that will comisserate.

[tiffany21]

kelly hugs to you sweetie

[ebgreen74]

hmm I wonder who you could be talking about??? LOL

[Ladytiger]

I will just say this. I have been one of those people that it seems everything happened to in the past year or so. If it wasn't for this forum during that time, I would have kep alot of feelings in. I didn't want to complain to my family, I just have DD and Dbf. It helped just to know that there were others that were pulling for me at a time that I didn't even know myself.
NOW, I am even hesitant to post what's been going on. I only to post so that my friends/family can have an idea what's been happening with me. I just don't wanted to get blasted or questioned as to how these things are all happening to me-I don't know. I am just trying to go with the flow. Sometimes it gets hard to climb the hill. It helps to have someone that you hear in the distance saying "C'mon you can do it".
How anyone can make things up is beyond me. Whatever you throw out there by saying is happening when it isn't is going to most likely make that happen, you are drawing that to you. Yeah, I fell for some things on here that made me feel silly, but like Maeryn said, "it doesn't cost any money'..just move on. I can't even say to learn the lesson-what lesson? Not to trust people? I won't go there. I won't become so jaded that I can't type some encouraging words for someone-true or not. It's not for me to decide who encourage and support and who not to.

[justme23]

Originally posted by Ladytiger
I will just say this. I have been one of those people that it seems everything happened to in the past year or so. If it wasn't for this forum during that time, I would have kep alot of feelings in. I didn't want to complain to my family, I just have DD and Dbf. It helped just to know that there were others that were pulling for me at a time that I didn't even know myself.
NOW, I am even hesitant to post what's been going on. I only to post so that my friends/family can have an idea what's been happening with me. I just don't wanted to get blasted or questioned as to how these things are all happening to me-I don't know. I am just trying to go with the flow. Sometimes it gets hard to climb the hill. It helps to have someone that you hear in the distance saying "C'mon you can do it".
How anyone can make things up is beyond me. Whatever you throw out there by saying is happening when it isn't is going to most likely make that happen, you are drawing that to you. Yeah, I fell for some things on here that made me feel silly, but like Maeryn said, "it doesn't cost any money'..just move on. I can't even say to learn the lesson-what lesson? Not to trust people? I won't go there. I won't become so jaded that I can't type some encouraging words for someone-true or not. It's not for me to decide who encourage and support and who not to.


LT, for what it's worth, I don't think she means you. I think she means ppl who seem to be out just to get attention... that with each thread the stories get 'bigger and better', the ones who post about the same thing repeatedly, embelishing it each time, getting the same advice and never doing anything about it (which isn't always possible, I know)... by reading your posts, you're not one of those ppl, we all see you are trying and making a difference in your life. There's differences in what you post and some of the ones I think she's talking about. As far as I think anyone is concerned, you aren't one of the subjects to this vent.

[IFeelLucky]

I agree with you chelle33 all the way. Some people do have really bizare lives and problems. Im one of them myself. I do understand what this threads all about and that is way beyond overdone. Some people strive for attencion and get off on it. But when its a real big lie and people get hurt out of it then theres a real problem. all i can say is forgive them for they don't know what they do.

[lilbugger]

Originally posted by justme23
LT, for what it's worth, I don't think she means you. I think she means ppl who seem to be out just to get attention... that with each thread the stories get 'bigger and better', the ones who post about the same thing repeatedly, embelishing it each time, getting the same advice and never doing anything about it (which isn't always possible, I know)... by reading your posts, you're not one of those ppl, we all see you are trying and making a difference in your life. There's differences in what you post and some of the ones I think she's talking about. As far as I think anyone is concerned, you aren't one of the subjects to this vent.


exactly, as the OP of this thread, i hereby kill it

[mikang]

I seen that Kellybeebear might have thought she was one that was thought to be lying, well I bet there are a lot more that think they might be the one some are talking about. Who knows you might be talking about me! I don't know how you know if someone is lying unless you were there when whatever happened took place or either your Sylvia Browne. This is one subject that should have been left out of vent and whine. The last time I looked this forum was called vent & whine. Now I don't know if I want to post anything that's happened to me because I'll wonder if someone is passing judgement on me. If you think they are lying and you don't like it just skip the thread and go to the next. IMHO

[Cindee]

I've been reading all these posts and I believe there are some people that are not telling the truth or some that stretch the true, It personally does not affect me in reading their posts. I've posted a little bit about myself(mental health forum), but I'm one person that wouldn't come on here and post every problem that I'm having, after reading some of the posts, I'm now at the point where I really don't want to post, you can call me one of those lurkers:D

[ahippiechic]

When someone posts something in a forum like this, everyone forms an opinion about the post. I don't post everytime I think someone is lying or stretching the truth, but when they post lies that hurt others, then yes, I will say something about it. And sometimes, some of us DO know when a person is lying, Some things we can check out, others maybe we got a different story elsewhere, etc. It's not a big deal, I could care less of peeps post lies, but like I said, when their lies start hurting people, then I'll post my opinion on it.