Sarahsmom
05-01-2003, 08:51 AM
Last yr for the Jr. Prom my daughter asked if after the Prom she could stay at one of her friends house. From what I knew 2 limos full of kids planned to stay over and then go to school from there the next day. Prom was on a Thursday and the next day the school planned a outing at a private rec. park, that provided food, entertainment, swimming, boating ect. Just so the kids would have a safe place to go the day after Prom.
My daughter is a great kid, never in trouble or gives me any trouble.
I told her to have the other kids mom call me and I'd see about her going. "Everyone else was staying she couldn't be the only one coming home." is what she told me. anyway the mom calls and she tells me she will suppervise, no drinking, no sneaking off, she will be there all night. I made a point that I was not really happy about this but if she could assure me that she would they would be supervised. I even talked to a couple of other mothers and they there letting there child stay and seemed to have no problems with it.
Prom comes and goes. A few months later. I find out that the mom provide beer and let the kids have free rane of the house. She was there alright parting right alone with them. One of the reasons I found out was because one of my daughters friends got so drunk she didn't know what she was doing and she ended up cheating on her boyfriend (who had went home). Any way it came out that the mom had a good time herself. I understand now that a lot of drinking goes on over there. Now I find out she goe to her boyfiends a lot and lives the house to her son. I want to kill this B.
I really would have like to have done something to her. It was too late for the police. I wanted to call her but my daughter begged me not to. My daughter got in big trouble with me. I know kids will drink and do what ever they can get away with. But I am so pissed that this mom would do this. She told me right to my face that this was not going to happen. I DON'T THINK THERE CAN BE A LOWER LIVE FORM.
Luckly my daughter has a new boyfriend and they are not into the drinking. I put down tough rules for her and she knows them. I might seem "mean"but I believe this is what kids needs these days. She know she did wrong, she should have called me and I would have come get her but she didn't want to look like a jerk in front of her friends.
Now Prom season is approaching and she is coming home. Teenagers can get in enough trouble by them self they don't need adults helping them.
Now comes last week-end. Daughter boyfriend comes over crying. A friend of his was killed in a car crash after leaving a party Saturday night where the parents alowed them to drink. (NOT the same mom who let the kids at my d party drink). Not much has been in the paper about it, only that the kid was alone in the car and hit a tree. Only because dbf goes to school with him do we know that he was drink. He also said the parents that let the kids drink are in really trouble. I say jail them and throw away the key.
D and BF have seen the hard true, parents who let the kids drink are not cool, they are killer.
I don't know I still want to go slash this "B" tires. I really want to call the police to raid there next party. D doesn't hang with them anymore, thank God.
I just think that this could have happened after the Prom, not only, drunk driving, but alchol posioning, unsafe sex, who knows what else. I know you can't protect them all the time. But I for one try my best to guide my d to a good life, one where she will be a productive part of this world.
I really think I need to call this mom and give her a piece of my mind. I am just waiting for daughter to finish school.
Thanks for listening.
My daughter is a great kid, never in trouble or gives me any trouble.
I told her to have the other kids mom call me and I'd see about her going. "Everyone else was staying she couldn't be the only one coming home." is what she told me. anyway the mom calls and she tells me she will suppervise, no drinking, no sneaking off, she will be there all night. I made a point that I was not really happy about this but if she could assure me that she would they would be supervised. I even talked to a couple of other mothers and they there letting there child stay and seemed to have no problems with it.
Prom comes and goes. A few months later. I find out that the mom provide beer and let the kids have free rane of the house. She was there alright parting right alone with them. One of the reasons I found out was because one of my daughters friends got so drunk she didn't know what she was doing and she ended up cheating on her boyfriend (who had went home). Any way it came out that the mom had a good time herself. I understand now that a lot of drinking goes on over there. Now I find out she goe to her boyfiends a lot and lives the house to her son. I want to kill this B.
I really would have like to have done something to her. It was too late for the police. I wanted to call her but my daughter begged me not to. My daughter got in big trouble with me. I know kids will drink and do what ever they can get away with. But I am so pissed that this mom would do this. She told me right to my face that this was not going to happen. I DON'T THINK THERE CAN BE A LOWER LIVE FORM.
Luckly my daughter has a new boyfriend and they are not into the drinking. I put down tough rules for her and she knows them. I might seem "mean"but I believe this is what kids needs these days. She know she did wrong, she should have called me and I would have come get her but she didn't want to look like a jerk in front of her friends.
Now Prom season is approaching and she is coming home. Teenagers can get in enough trouble by them self they don't need adults helping them.
Now comes last week-end. Daughter boyfriend comes over crying. A friend of his was killed in a car crash after leaving a party Saturday night where the parents alowed them to drink. (NOT the same mom who let the kids at my d party drink). Not much has been in the paper about it, only that the kid was alone in the car and hit a tree. Only because dbf goes to school with him do we know that he was drink. He also said the parents that let the kids drink are in really trouble. I say jail them and throw away the key.
D and BF have seen the hard true, parents who let the kids drink are not cool, they are killer.
I don't know I still want to go slash this "B" tires. I really want to call the police to raid there next party. D doesn't hang with them anymore, thank God.
I just think that this could have happened after the Prom, not only, drunk driving, but alchol posioning, unsafe sex, who knows what else. I know you can't protect them all the time. But I for one try my best to guide my d to a good life, one where she will be a productive part of this world.
I really think I need to call this mom and give her a piece of my mind. I am just waiting for daughter to finish school.
Thanks for listening.