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dedesunshine
04-30-2003, 01:43 PM
Ok here is my Vent/Whine.......Today is my bday and I turned the big 34 :( and not a person in my family (not even my mother) REMEMBERED!!! I am a little down today...I help everybody in my family when they need help.....I remember there bdays and call them at least if not in person to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! I guess its just not an important day for my MOTHER and Father and Sisters??? Oh well I'll hush up whining for today I guess. Hope you all are having a better day than me!! (do I sound like a 5 year old or what??...lol)

*StarDust*
04-30-2003, 02:01 PM
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I'm Sorry no one remembered {{{{dedesunshine}}}}

miccit
04-30-2003, 02:01 PM
Sorry no one remembered your birthday.


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Taterbo
04-30-2003, 02:04 PM
Happy Birthday to you!!!!!! :) ;) :) :p :D :) :)

I know it stinks when family forgets about your birthday.Sometimes you don't want to be reminded that you are getting older, but you still want to be remembered.. Hope your day gets better....:)

dedesunshine
04-30-2003, 02:06 PM
Thanks you guys.....just been one of those days I guess.....You have made me smile :D

scifiwoman
04-30-2003, 02:06 PM
Happy Birthday.. :)

Danny
04-30-2003, 02:09 PM
I'm sorry I don't know you well enough to have known it was your birthday - but you go out and have some ice cream and buy yourself something you really want and have a wonderful day!! Happy Birthday!!

~Roxy~
04-30-2003, 02:18 PM
Happy Birthday!!!

tiffany21
04-30-2003, 02:18 PM
happy birthday:D

CarolinaBlue
04-30-2003, 02:23 PM
Happy Birthday to you!!!!!! :D :D :D

lisahiser
04-30-2003, 02:36 PM
I know how you feel, when I turned 17 (that was YEARS ago) not one single person said happy birthday to me, I went all day and didnt say anything, my family and I had dinner like it was an ordinary day, and then we all sat down to watch T.V. and then after that I stood up and said "well I am going to bed or by the way thanks sooooo for saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY to me today! " I then went to my room. I almost laughed cuz my mom and dad got into it cuz neither one of them remembered, so the next day my mom took me out shopping and let me choose whatever I wanted and didnt whine about the price or if I was getting too much. I will never forget that! It hurts, just to think that the woman who gave birth to you doesnt even remember...

But anyways


HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!! I hope that it gets better!

ajames05
04-30-2003, 02:37 PM
A very HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
I'd sing, but you'd ask me to stop.

Maybe you'll get a ton of freebies in the mail! Here's to hoping! :)

ntgsmommy
04-30-2003, 02:41 PM
Hey dedesunshine, it's my birthday too! No one remembered mine either! So, happy birthday to you, and happy birthday to me! I'm 33!

Nimue
04-30-2003, 02:47 PM
Happy Birthday to both of you! I am sorry no one remembered your special day. HUGS

MommyG3
04-30-2003, 03:06 PM
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday dear dedesunshine and ntgsmommy
Happy Birthday to you...and many more. :D

FrEEbiZ4Me
04-30-2003, 03:08 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mlathroum
04-30-2003, 03:13 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

I know how you feel. March 28th I turned 35. A month before I had my gallbladder out and was really sick. Hubby asks me a few days after surgery what I wanted for my birthday. Somehow the suggestion
of a party come up. I made the comment that since my birthday was always ignored no one would come to a party. He said "You don't know that". So I said "Prove it!!". Did I get a party? No. Did anyone remember it was my birthday? No. The evening of my birthday I ripped him a new one. Reminded him of the conversation the month before and the fact that he still didn't do anything. So the night after my birthday 2 friends I grew up with took me to dinner and a movie. We do that for each others birthdays and is usually the only recognition I get. When I came home that night he handed me a wrapped present and walked away. I accepted it and his apology. It does still hurt though that he can't remember ANYTHING without being told every 5 minutes. Someday they will realize how much something hurts.

Take the suggestion earlier. You need to go shopping tomorrow and buy whatever YOU need. Nothing for anyone else. Just enjoy a belated birthday gift to your self.

miccit
04-30-2003, 03:42 PM
Originally posted by Danny
I'm sorry I don't know you well enough to have known it was your birthday - but you go out and have some ice cream and buy yourself something you really want and have a wonderful day!! Happy Birthday!!

You know it is free ice cream night at Baskin and Robbins. See they remembered your birthday! Go get yourself a free ice cream (it helps a good charity)!

Happy Birthday !!!!!!

hotwheelstx
04-30-2003, 04:55 PM
I'm sorry no one remembered. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU..............I won't go any further you'll start howling at the moon. LOL

Aggie's birthday is New Year's Eve and I always make it a point to do something special since it's a "party time" anyway.

Does he remember mine??? HELL NO. Funny thing is mine is on Memorial Day when you celebrate vets. He's a vet and was in the military for 20 plus years. How easy could that be?? Not for him:confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

I would go shopping tomorrow and buy whatever I wanted. NO MATTER WHAT THE PRICE, WHERE YOU GO, WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO TO GET IT. I usually wind up purchasing my own gift anyway. Would be really nice to get something from Aggie that he chose and I didn't already know about it.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND MANY MORE. TREAT YOURSELF WELL. YOU DESERVE IT............ ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)

ntgsmommy
04-30-2003, 04:59 PM
thanks everyone!

BeanieLuvR
04-30-2003, 07:25 PM
Happy Birthday to both of you!!! :):):):)

the1bea
04-30-2003, 07:36 PM
I know what it is like when NO ONE knows its your b-day. My family forgot when I turned 12. My brothers b-day is only 2 days before mine, and they remembered his. They did remember though, when it was our bed time.

heartlvrs
04-30-2003, 07:53 PM
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Trust me I KNOW how ya' feel:(

Shellshell
04-30-2003, 08:38 PM
Happy Birthday !!!

jcw
04-30-2003, 08:52 PM
Happy Birthday to you both. Sorry you got your feelings hurt on your birthday.

Barbi_Route66
04-30-2003, 10:30 PM
Happy Belated Birthday to both Dedesunshine & Ngtsmommy! When your family & close friends realize they forgot, tell 'em you'll take a nice dinner out & some moolah as a belated birthday gift! LOL! :D

Y'all remember that Molly Ringwall movie, Sixteen Candles? Same thing happened to her character in that film.

dedesunshine
05-01-2003, 09:24 AM
Thanks so much you guys!!! I finally got one phone call late last night......my friend of 24 years called at 11:58 pm to tell me Happy Birthday!!! My hubby didnt even remember till this morning! He says he's sorry..... Oh well maybe he wont forget next year?!?!?
OH and HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY TOOOOO YOUUUUUUU ntgsmommy!!!!
I really needed all these posts ......You all sure made me smile :D

jbec
05-07-2009, 01:09 PM
i know what u mean. today is my birthday and only 4 people remembered. :( i have not been this sad 4 a long time... :'(

galeane29
05-07-2009, 01:17 PM
Wow, this sure was an old post.

speedygirl
05-07-2009, 01:19 PM
Wow, this sure was an old post.

No kidding and a newbie finding it no less. ;)

mabby89
05-13-2009, 03:10 PM
i know what u mean. today is my birthday and only 4 people remembered. :( i have not been this sad 4 a long time... :'(

wow to search back six years for this took longer than it would have to start a new thread.

Lild
05-13-2009, 03:14 PM
hip hop hippy to the hip hop and ya don't stop

IthinkNOT!
05-13-2009, 03:18 PM
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy Belated happy birthday, OP

DBackFan
05-13-2009, 03:21 PM
off topic I know but interesting avatar you have there IthinkNot! :rolling

mabby89
05-13-2009, 03:23 PM
off topic I know but interesting avatar you have there IthinkNot! :rolling

ya think so? i like it too.

IthinkNOT!
05-13-2009, 03:23 PM
Isn't it though...it reminds me of someone I knew back when I was more naive...

debs1967
05-13-2009, 03:23 PM
Happy Birthday!!!

IthinkNOT!
05-13-2009, 03:24 PM
Ummm...does this mean we get a new club now?

Lild
05-13-2009, 03:24 PM
Love it

pepperpot
05-13-2009, 03:24 PM
:rolling Love the Squidward avatars! :rolling

IthinkNOT!
05-13-2009, 03:27 PM
off topic I know but interesting avatar you have there IthinkNot! :rolling
Thanks, I like yours too!

ElleGee
05-13-2009, 03:28 PM
OMG I feel like I have gone to a party wearing the same dress as everyone!!!!!

Lild
05-13-2009, 03:29 PM
OMG I feel like I have gone to a party wearing the same dress as everyone!!!!!

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:dancing:

IthinkNOT!
05-13-2009, 03:30 PM
It's actually a little confusing, I was like WTF? How many times did I post? LOL