cpbaby
04-26-2003, 03:55 PM
Yeah, I know others are worse off than me and this is petty but no flaming please.
For THREE WEEKS we have had plans to go to a friends house tonight. First was for a "adult" type party for the women and the men were going to cook out and drink beer outside. Then that got changed becuase the party got cancelled, but we were still invited over for a cook out. THEN the cookout got cancelled(rainy and wet) so we were supposed to go over and go out to eat and then go back and play cards and the men drink beer. ( I dont drink) SO this morning I told the DH that we are supposed to be there at 5:45 so we can go eat at 6. At 5:30 he comes in telling me about all this stuff he has to do and never mentions our plans. I finally ask him if hes planning on getting a shower before we go or what here? Uhhh, Oh yeah, hes getting a shower first. Ok, fine EXCEPT he takes 45 minutes to get his showers. I am trying to not get upset(too late) and he is like what? What time are we supposed to eat? I told him 6:00 and its a 40 minute drive to my friends house. Oh well, then! Now hes mad and we arent going because I didnt tell him it was so early. I could cry and he doesnt see why Im upset, hes the one being put out caus ehe couldnt do anything outside yesterday or this mornign cause of the weather, so I am now being penalized. I didnt buy anything for supper, I dont have a clue what we are going to eat, I dont really care at this moment. Luckily my friend is very understanding. Its like he doesnt care what I have planned, hes doing whatever he wants. I dont ask for much, he can watch anything he wants on tv except for on Monday and Thursday nights. We NEVER go out. The last place we went was to HIS MOMS. I love him but this DRIVES ME CRAZY!
I graduated in December of 2002 and am marching on May 9th. I have VISIONS of being late to my own graduation cause he cant get anywhere on time. I HATE to take two cars cause its at night and 45 minutes away, but I think it may be the best solution.
For THREE WEEKS we have had plans to go to a friends house tonight. First was for a "adult" type party for the women and the men were going to cook out and drink beer outside. Then that got changed becuase the party got cancelled, but we were still invited over for a cook out. THEN the cookout got cancelled(rainy and wet) so we were supposed to go over and go out to eat and then go back and play cards and the men drink beer. ( I dont drink) SO this morning I told the DH that we are supposed to be there at 5:45 so we can go eat at 6. At 5:30 he comes in telling me about all this stuff he has to do and never mentions our plans. I finally ask him if hes planning on getting a shower before we go or what here? Uhhh, Oh yeah, hes getting a shower first. Ok, fine EXCEPT he takes 45 minutes to get his showers. I am trying to not get upset(too late) and he is like what? What time are we supposed to eat? I told him 6:00 and its a 40 minute drive to my friends house. Oh well, then! Now hes mad and we arent going because I didnt tell him it was so early. I could cry and he doesnt see why Im upset, hes the one being put out caus ehe couldnt do anything outside yesterday or this mornign cause of the weather, so I am now being penalized. I didnt buy anything for supper, I dont have a clue what we are going to eat, I dont really care at this moment. Luckily my friend is very understanding. Its like he doesnt care what I have planned, hes doing whatever he wants. I dont ask for much, he can watch anything he wants on tv except for on Monday and Thursday nights. We NEVER go out. The last place we went was to HIS MOMS. I love him but this DRIVES ME CRAZY!
I graduated in December of 2002 and am marching on May 9th. I have VISIONS of being late to my own graduation cause he cant get anywhere on time. I HATE to take two cars cause its at night and 45 minutes away, but I think it may be the best solution.