I want to shout ... I can't believe it!

[VQ]

Yeah, it's true! I haven't been around lately. Know why? Because I didn't have my computer anymore. You want to know why I haven't had my computer?!?!?!!!!

I DID IT!!! I finally got out of this abusive relationship. It will be a week tomorrow night that I haven't seen nor talked to my husband. I really do feel great. Time for me to move on. I just have to keep strong and keep praying that this was the last time. I feel different. I feel NO guilt at all for leaving him. I have support all around me now.

Thank you to everyone that always had kind words and supportive things to say to me.

[Ghetto_Gurl]

WTG!!!!!!!!!!! im so happy you got yourself out of a bad situation! glad to have you back on BBS!!

[MommyG3]

YEAH VQ!!! That is wonderful news. Hope everything goes well for you. I am here for you if you need me. Just PM me.

[morris2b]

Hang in there ((((((((((VQ))))))))))

It is tough but you will make it and please please please DO NOT go back, stay away from him ;)

[GAWildKat]

(((((((((((((((((((VQ)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I told you, that it could be done. I'm glad that you finally left. Now stay away from the jerk and don't let him sweet talk you back.

You have my blessings.

WildKat

[Kelsey1224]

WTG...congratulations! Keep Strong!

[Blackberry]

That is wonderful! You deserve so much more. :)

[DBackFan]

woooo hoooooooooo!! Lean on us! You can do it, stay strong. We are so proud of you!

[ckerr4]

{{{VQ}}}

[denisemm]

(((((((((VQ)))))))))
Good for you! Stay strong, you can do it!

[MsLynn]

just find a way to come back here anytime you feel week, remember the library usually offers free access.

[justbeachy]

Hip, Hip, Hurray!!!!!!! {{{VQ}}}

[moe265]

Good for you!!! Stay strong and enjoy your new beginning!!! It is so worth it!!

[odyssey]

{{{{{{VQ}}}}}}}}

[schsa]

Keep moving forward. Do not look back. Do not go back! I am so proud of you. Sometimes we have setbacks in life but that doesn't mean that we are down and out. Keep up the good work! I am so happy for you. And so proud.

[Maeryn]

WAY TO GO, GIRL!!!!

You can make it, just keep hanging in there. Even when things get tough, you'll still be better off than you were before. There's a lot of supportive people here, so keep in touch!

Oh, and now you can tell all those jerks that dissed you last time you posted to KISS YER FANNY!! So There.

[hotwheelstx]

GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO VQ. You can do it. I know you can. Be strong, stay that way. Who needs him anyway. You can make it on your own.

Keep your chin up and your eyes to the sky. There's a beautiful life waiting for you.

DON'T GIVE UP. NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS.
;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)

I'm soooooooooooooooo proud of you. It's a big step. Keep walking. You have my full support.

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[AKISS]

Just remember there are times that you will miss him and things are hard. But you are a strong person to be able to leave the situiation and there will always be people to lean on. Stay strong!!!!!!!

[VQ]

Fortunately I do have my computer with me now. I had a police escort go to the house with me last week to get our basic needs...lol...which included my computer.

Not only did I have an escort to the house, they arrested him before I even went in because I still had my restraining order. They already dropped the charges though and he was only in one night.

I just feel so refreshed and I'm smiling all the time the past few days. The boys are taking it very well. I can't tell that they missed him at all, but today I explained that soon they will go and visit their dad, but only after the judge tells us it's ok for them to see him. Disciplining them has been tough, but it's no worse than before...just hope it stays this way.

Thank-you all!

[catdance]

Girl..stay strong, and if "temptation arises", unless you both agree to seek therapy, what has happened before, will happen again...so you hold on to "what you know is true"..and who you are, and what you want..HANG ON!!!!
You deserve more, I apperciate your strength..I have been there!!
Do, take care of you..you are first..
LOVE and PEACE..
~lisagirl

[heartlvrs]

Congrats...now...WHATEVER>>YOU DO>>DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT>>let him talk you back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[lisahiser]

OH SUCH WONDERFUL NEWS!!!!!! I have been wondering about you!!!! Oh I am sending you a TON of good vibes! I wanna do a happy dance for you!!!!! GOOD FOR YOU!!! I knew you could do it!!!! Stay strong girl! this is only the first step into getting on with "YOUR" life! Keeping thinking that life is going to be sooooooo much better, keep telling yourself that is good for you and your children. Just remember, You are strong, and NOBODY can EVER do this to you again and YOU WON'T LET IT! OH I want to give you a hug sooooo bad!!! GOOD FOR YOU!!! :D(((((((((VQ)))))))))))

Keep in touch! and let us know how you are doing! We are here for you!

[Ladytiger]

YAY!! I am so very happy for you!! I know what a struggle it can be, but hang in there, stay strong and reach out to us as well as your support there when times get tough. Welcome..to your new life!! You have my email addy (it's in the sig too), please email me from time to time and let me know how you are doing. {{{{{VQ}}}}}