I'm DONE! - Big Big Forums

PreciousDarlin · 10-23-2009, 10:10 PM

I've been with this guy for just over 3mos now. I specifically asked about drug use before we started seeing one another and he gave me the story about what he used to do and etc. Denied any current drug use. Well, about 6wks ago, he admitted that he had a problem with lortabs, but wanted to get clean off them for the sake of me and my kids. Well, there have been several things that have made me question the truth in this... Money has come up missing from my house as well as my parents when we spent the night at their house because of issues with my ex husband. Also, I had one lortab in a prescription bottle on my night stand. It was there Wednesday night and Thursday night when I went to take some medicine for my headache, I noticed it was gone. He and I were the only ones in the bedroom on Thursday, and I am 99.99999% sure that I didn't take it, especially in my sleep. So, there is no other option as to who took it. His claim to be getting clean "for the sake of me and my kids" was shot all to hell tonight when my mother told me that he went to my elderly grandmother and bummed 2 lortabs off her yesterday. I've had more than I can take now and I'm done. Please, someone tell me I'm not over reacting??

Quaker_Parrots · 10-23-2009, 10:21 PM

Kick his sorry butt to the curb. If he is stealing, it isnt going to stop. What if he gets caught with one of your prescription bottles? It could mean trouble with the law for you too. Your kids need you, he doesnt.

pepperpot · 10-23-2009, 10:28 PM

done.....move along.....

gmyers · 10-23-2009, 10:56 PM

I wouldn't want someone that steals from me and my family and talks my grandma out of her medicine around me or my kids. Sounds like he has a serious problem with painkillers. And addiction doesn't get better if he's denying it.

fleabones3 · 10-23-2009, 11:59 PM

Kick him to the curb and be done with *nod*

jasmine · 10-24-2009, 12:00 AM

three months is nothin', c-ya, bu-by

NEXT

Mary Jo · 10-24-2009, 12:30 AM

Ditto what everybody else has said.
Get as far away from the loser as quickly as you can.

crystalbug · 10-24-2009, 04:05 AM

Run don't walk as far and as fast as you can away from this situation, my brothers whole family was torn apart because of drugs, his worthless x wife would do anything for pills including hurting her own children, I would love to simply throw her in the river because she is still destroying those kids lives, most are grown and gone but she still has one victim left, I will be so glad when the last is 18, i have seen these kids put through pure hell because of her and she still hasnt learned, but her time is coming and I hope she will realize how she really messed up when every one of her five girls wouldn't spit on her if she was on fire.

dv8grl · 10-24-2009, 07:43 AM

Pill junkies are worse than "illegal" drug junkies!

krisharry · 10-24-2009, 02:44 PM

Run and don't look back. Have nothing more to do with him. Do not see him, text him, or answer his calls. Cut all ties immediately. Life is too short.

PreciousDarlin · 10-24-2009, 04:04 PM

At this point, he apparently hasn't gotten the messages I've sent telling him to come pick up his stuff. I will give him one chance to tell me the truth about the drug use, but the relationship is over either way. I know the true answer to my question and that will determine if I will even continue to be his friend. Thank you all for your support!