nori

The trust issue is hard because this has happened before only with phone calls and text messages. Even then when i asked him to put a stop to it he said he didnt have anything to do with it and refused to do anything. They all see to be young women i am 44 with Chronic Reginal Pain Syndrome and cant work. I try not to get in his face but when you see it everytime you pick him up it sometimes becomes unbearable. I have even left early just to watch them since they work outside and the majority of the time they are so close together it is really making me wonder.

Anniston

Well, sorry to hear that you maybe have reason for suspicion. I hope it does all work out for you and that he is just a flirt who does not pay enough respect for how it makes you feel, and that he would not actually have an affair.

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ttistin

If your sneaking around spying on them then you need to go in there and have a talk with both of them. Face to face. Ask them both what is going on.

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whatever

Always trust your instincts. If you think there is something going on, there probably is. I would do something NOW. Just because you don't work due to health issues has nothing to do with him cheating. Its NO excuse.

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PreciousDarlin

While DH may innocently enjoying the attentions of another woman, it seems that the shock on their faces and his unwillingness to say anything to her about it seems suspicious. I, personally, would be concerned that there was an affair or that he wanted one but was afraid to make the move to begin one. Since talking to him did no good (and I would definitely be talking to him about disrespecting your feelings), I would have a talk with her. It's possible that she is unaware of the picture she is painting, but I highly doubt it. If she is unwilling to make the changes to at least appear more appropriate, I would make an anonymous tip to the boss that there is less than ideal situations going on in his station. Make sure to slant the blame towards her overzealous, affectionate nature, not to your husbands inabiity to stand up for himself. If you've noticed it, I'm sure other patrons have as well. That could, very well, be the end of the problem, although it could open a whole new can of worms with DH. If you feel uncomfortable with making the phone call yourself, have someone you know do it. That way, you seem less like the untrusting spouse (though I have reason to believe you should be) and the situation still gets attention. I know this seems a little drastic perhaps, but it's simply what I would do in this situation.

sunniekiss

To have a marraige work you need honesty, trust, communication & respect. Since you are new here I can only go by your posts but it seems you have none of the above in your marraige.
Has anything happened to make you distrust your husband? Are you sitting at home all day thinking he is cheating?

BTW...I also have RSD & I work a full time job.

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Quaker_Parrots

Freak her out. Catch her sometime when your DH isnt around and tell her you and your DH "swing" and ask her if she wants to join in. Tell her your DH likes to watch you with other women, he doesnt participate. Unless she is into that kind of thing, she will back off pretty quick

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I'd tell her that he has herpes....bet that gets her movin'!

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OMG!! that is so wrong, in such a good way, lol!!

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