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Licchl05 · 10-01-2009, 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by jasmine

no, he has no right to taxes, or even health decisions or ANYTHING, I have custody, he is the non-custodial parent~ of course we would be civil discussing important issues that concerned our children.
But when you have custody, he has no rights, and it is illegal for him to file the kids on his taxes.
If you have joint custody, maybe there is a plan drawn out, sharing the kids on taxes, every other year????

See that's the weird thing...it was a child support only hearing, nothing for custody, but yet he has the right to claim her every other year on taxes provided he's not in arrears.

jasmine · 10-01-2009, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Licchl05

See that's the weird thing...it was a child support only hearing, nothing for custody, but yet he has the right to claim her every other year on taxes provided he's not in arrears.

so, was there lawyers involved, did you file for divorce? Go to court for divorce? If so, then there is custody set up in your divorce decree papers. Is it in writing that he is allowed to do this? If you didn't file for divorce, then only child support was set up, you need to go to a lawyer and file, or have something more solid written up that you guys can follow for guide lines on the rules.... (financially etc.)

Licchl05 · 10-01-2009, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by jasmine

so, was there lawyers involved, did you file for divorce? Go to court for divorce? If so, then there is custody set up in your divorce decree papers. Is it in writing that he is allowed to do this? If you didn't file for divorce, then only child support was set up, you need to go to a lawyer and file, or have something more solid written up that you guys can follow for guide lines on the rules.... (financially etc.)

Chloe's dad and I were never married. I filed through the courts here in PA for support, and since he's in AZ they took jurisdiction for some stupid reason, and granted him the right to claim her on taxes.

jasmine · 10-01-2009, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Licchl05

Chloe's dad and I were never married. I filed through the courts here in PA for support, and since he's in AZ they took jurisdiction for some stupid reason, and granted him the right to claim her on taxes.

well, depending on who has Chloe. If he has the child most or all of the time, he would have the right to file. Maybe you should consider to get a hold of who ever took care of your case and have them bring it back up and re-evaluate it. Also in SOME states they do recognize common law marriage.

Licchl05 · 10-01-2009, 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by jasmine

well, depending on who has Chloe. If he has the child most or all of the time, he would have the right to file. Maybe you should consider to get a hold of who ever took care of your case and have them bring it back up and re-evaluate it. Also in SOME states they do recognize common law marriage.

He's never laid eyes on this child. We were together for about a year, so no common law marriage there. He thought partying and hanging with his friends was more important than coming to see his child. When I left Phoenix, due to stress of living in his parents house him and I sharing a small room with my son and him drinking his life away, he would then tell me that he loved me wanted to move to PA to be with me, all while denying Chloe was his to his family. His dad and step mom knew she was his, she looks sooooooooo much like him, but his mom is a juicebox and even told me that she wouldn't get involved in my "schemes" when I needed medical information when Chloe was 2 for an issue Chloe had and was being tested for. Needless to say that's when I decided to file for support and the DNA test to shove in his mothers face. Of course it came back that she's his, and AZ took the support back to the day she was born instead of to when I filed. I just think I seriously got hosed in the court order....I wasn't even notified they were having a hearing!

jasmine · 10-01-2009, 11:06 PM

yeah, you need to get you a lawyer, or call DHS and get a hold of legal aid and tell your story and get all of this straightened out. Wouldn't it be SAWEET if you got all the back taxes that he ever filed on Chloe also(which I would personally ask for also).

DreamWarrior · 10-02-2009, 12:26 PM

I called the child support enforcement place today. I asked them if I could have them re-evaluate my case since its been over 5 years since it has been opened, and they said all I have to do is write them a short letter stating that I want my case modified, sign it, date it and send it in. My ex is gonna get what he has coming!!! He has neglected his responsibility LONG ENOUGH!!!

I am so happy! *does happy dance*
Thank you guys for all the support and thanks for listening to me babble

I love you all!

Licchl05 · 10-02-2009, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by DreamWarrior

I called the child support enforcement place today. I asked them if I could have them re-evaluate my case since its been over 5 years since it has been opened, and they said all I have to do is write them a short letter stating that I want my case modified, sign it, date it and send it in. My ex is gonna get what he has coming!!! He has neglected his responsibility LONG ENOUGH!!!

I am so happy! *does happy dance*
Thank you guys for all the support and thanks for listening to me babble

I love you all!

That is wonderful news!!!! Please let us know how it goes! I'll be thinking about you and the kiddos!!

jasmine · 10-02-2009, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by DreamWarrior

I called the child support enforcement place today. I asked them if I could have them re-evaluate my case since its been over 5 years since it has been opened, and they said all I have to do is write them a short letter stating that I want my case modified, sign it, date it and send it in. My ex is gonna get what he has coming!!! He has neglected his responsibility LONG ENOUGH!!!

I am so happy! *does happy dance*
Thank you guys for all the support and thanks for listening to me babble

I love you all!

I am so happy for you! May you get what you deserve, and more!!