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DreamWarrior · 09-30-2009, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Licchl05

I wish states would do more to enforce support orders. I've had an order on Chloe's dad for 2 years. He owes me over 11k, and I haven't gotten a payment since Dec of 2007. I've contacted PA(it's where she's always lived and where I filed) but since he lives in AZ and AZ is who put the order in we're at their mercy.

You should be able to have it moved to PA.. I asked my case worker about moving mine to Mo, and well, i got the papers today

Its still gonna be 6-8 weeks before everything is said and done, but hey, thats 6-8 weeks more support my kids get...

Licchl05 · 09-30-2009, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by DreamWarrior

Oh... and here's the BEST part... he just put his 2 weeks in last night where he works.. he plans on going back over the road for a company he has worked for before, so there goes my regular support again.. (it may only be $90 but I can make it stretch). He does this shiz every time he hits the 6 month mark... he always finds something wrong with the company he works for... either the ppl are jerks or he doesnt like the rate of pay...blah blah blah... same crap every 6 months...

THANKFULLY the man I am with now knows how to hold a job! Hell he had a job less than 2 weeks after we moved to Missouri!! And has held it for over a year now. He supports me and my children financially as well as emotionally. He knew from the get go that I was a "package deal" you get me you get the kids too. He accepted that and is more of a man than my ex will EVER be!

Your ex has alot of the traits my ex's have LOL, and your new BF sounds like mine...sad we had to go through juiceboxes to get to the real prize!

It's an awesome feeling to be with someone who's, as I explain it, simply amazing. I wake up daily thanking God for blessing me with such a wonderful guy in my life as well as my kids.

Licchl05 · 09-30-2009, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by DreamWarrior

You should be able to have it moved to PA.. I asked my case worker about moving mine to Mo, and well, i got the papers today

Its still gonna be 6-8 weeks before everything is said and done, but hey, thats 6-8 weeks more support my kids get...

I don't even know why the hell AZ entered the judgement. I filed in PA, she was born in PA, and has always lived in PA. I've fought with them(PA) about it, they claim that since he lives in AZ they have jurisdiction...which makes absolutely no sense to me at all.

There should be laws for those who purposely change jobs frequently to get out of childsupport...hell there could be, I don't know. Chloe's dad has only worked under the table since before she was born, and I think his dad and step mom paid the first(and only) 2 payments I ever got. He thinks that wearing designer clothing and drinking his life away is more important than this little girl. She's better off without him anyways.

DreamWarrior · 09-30-2009, 09:34 PM

Yeah... my sperm donor (my father...he doesnt deserve to be called dad) is that way. He would work at a job til child support would come after him then he would quit or find a way to be paid under the table. And he has 2 other kids he never supported and 1 he did because her mother MADE him... Now he is on disability for having heart problems and being a drunk and dopehead... You think my mother saw one penny of back child support??? Hell no... the state took it all because she was on state aid when I was growing up.

Licchl05 · 09-30-2009, 09:42 PM

What I find the most absurd of all is that my friends juicebox(I can't stand him but she's still with him...) was 2 MONTHS behind in his support, which was a measely $100 and they were going to throw him in jail if he didn't pay by a certain date, yet we have guys who owe thousands of dollars and nothing is happening to them.

*not saying i agree with him being behind but seriously $100 is alot less than 11k.

DreamWarrior · 09-30-2009, 09:53 PM

each state is different... unfortunately...

mabby89 · 09-30-2009, 11:37 PM

Good luck with everything DW, and you too, Licchl05.

Licchl05 · 09-30-2009, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by DreamWarrior

each state is different... unfortunately...

I would say maybe they need to make it a federal thing, but then again look how bad the feds f stuff up...i think we could just end up worse off LOL!

DreamWarrior · 10-01-2009, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by mabby89

Good luck with everything DW, and you too, Licchl05.

Thanks mabby

jasmine · 10-01-2009, 11:33 AM

well DreamWarrior, I hope you get an AWESOME order for more money on your child support, $90 just doesn't cut it these days.

In my situation for child support from ex husband, I live in OK. And I just got tired of him not paying me every month and getting behind, so I took my court order to DHS, gave them his info. where he worked, lived etc... and they did the hunting down for me, I didn't have to do anything. They got a hold of his employer and it is now automatically deducted from his paycheck every month, first thing. If he ever does looses his job or whatever, DHS hunts him down, not me, he's in the system now, he can't get away LOL. It was so great one year, he was behind on child support, and his tax returns (with his new wife), got confiscated and redirected to ME LMAO, loved it!!
Also with me going through DHS for child support, all my payments get sent to a debit/mastercard. Or I can have the choice of direct deposit to my checking.

tsquared · 10-01-2009, 02:30 PM

Ummmmmm a right, left, right jab would be much more fun and relaxing ya know...................