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fleabones3 · 07-10-2009, 02:00 AM

Wow... hope she is ok... this is weird

The_Kinzzy · 07-10-2009, 02:29 PM

It's very weird that no one knows anything, I would definitely try to get a hold of her or someone there just to be sure everything is okay. I hope everything turns out okay for her.

ma4angels · 07-10-2009, 04:53 PM

I hope that someone hears from her soon. And I agree to call the police because if she is close to her son as she says she is and hasn't called him I would be calling someone.
I would try to get a message from her by her brother in law for her to call or I will be calling the police.

dangerousfem · 07-11-2009, 12:06 AM

I have to agree.. we all know how Mel was about that grandbaby.. and her son.. there should have been a phone call by now.. time to look into things I think.

babygirl08 · 07-11-2009, 01:20 AM

I have been sending messages to her mother n law and her brother n law and all they say is she's ok and will call when she gets to it neither me nor her son has heard from her since she left she told me she would be back in a couple of weeks to either pack up or stay here and it is now coming on her 2 weeks. Hopefully i here something real soon or i will send the police there all i know is they are living in spendora but i do have old addresses and i do have an inside conect at the police station there in houston gonna do some checking tomorrow will keep everyone posted!! Thanks for caring

nightrider127 · 07-11-2009, 01:58 AM

I wouldn't wait even another day. I would call the police and have them check out things.

This is getting scary.

fleabones3 · 07-11-2009, 02:23 AM

I know she is a grown woman and all, but dang. the way he left, then the way she went after him.. I know it doesnt take over night to straighten these things out, but its either he's coming home to give it another shot,she moving there with him, or her coming home on her own by now.. at least a freakin phone call to her son and sis and let them know something...

Mini · 07-11-2009, 03:33 AM

Ok Im not saying your lying Babygirl(please dont think that) but that just seems odd. The way she talks about her son she was VERY close to him but yet she'll just call whenever she feels like it? What is that seriously? Is this man really so much more important then her family? I thought she said she put her son first always?

Quaker_Parrots · 07-11-2009, 10:24 AM

It could be she is doing this to please him. I dont know all the details as to why he left, but it could very well be because he felt he didnt matter. If he wasnt abusive, and was good to her, it is time she focused on her own relationship with her husband and let her son have his life.

It is nice that she wanted to put her son first, and I agree with that when he was a child, but he is an adult now with a family of his own. It is time for her to let go.

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Originally Posted by Mini

Ok Im not saying your lying Babygirl(please dont think that) but that just seems odd. The way she talks about her son she was VERY close to him but yet she'll just call whenever she feels like it? What is that seriously? Is this man really so much more important then her family? I thought she said she put her son first always?

jonette5 · 07-11-2009, 10:40 AM

In no way would I trust what the MIL and BIL are telling you. They could be covering something up for the husband. I would call the police and have them check on her. If you have MIL or BIL phone number and it is not a cell, the police can find where they live. Did she leave without a cell phone to keep in touch? Something is not right with this picture. If it were me I sure would have called someone in my family by now to let them know what is going on and that I am ok. Please keep us updated. I am sending prayers that all is ok.

moe265 · 07-11-2009, 02:44 PM

I agree.. i wouldn't believe them either... I would want to hear her voice. Why wouldn't she call.. that's just weird. If she is devoting time to the husband that's all fine and good but to just disappear is just plain scary!