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06-30-2009, 09:37 AM
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This happened to my mom about 2 years ago. My step dad and her were married for 27 years. Just up and left. Now, he is a miserable SOB, remarried. If I ever see him again I will spit on him, literally.
You need to understand that it is not you. I am sure you miss him and miss the way things were. I don't know about your relationship, but the best is to know that you can do this! Hang in there...and post! Talk about it....
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06-30-2009, 03:34 PM
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she must really love him to do that...
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06-30-2009, 05:15 PM
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She may love him, but chasing after him isnt going to bring him back. IMHO she has to accept and let go, but I know thats easier said than done. Even if he came home, you couldnt trust him ever again. Might come home from grocery shopping and he'd be gone again.
I hope Meltodd finds the happiness she is looking for
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06-30-2009, 05:26 PM
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Wow I'm just now reading this. Not been on much. I'm so sorry for you!! I would be livid if my dh took all "our" money!! But I'm sure right now you can't see past the pain of him leaving.
You have a new grandbaby (if I remember correctly?) and your son to help you.And you mentioned your mom. I wish you well!
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06-30-2009, 05:57 PM
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You know...I would like to say that I would never chase after a man who did to me what her husband did to her...but one should never say never.
I think back on the degrading things I did to try and get my first husband back...things I never thought I would resort to...and I can't blame her.
I just feel so sorry for the pain she is going through and I hope she comes back stronger and in a better place.
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06-30-2009, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted by babygirl08
This is meltodd's sister babygirl08, with an up date meltodd packed and went to texas after him don't know no more than ya'll do but i agree that the the way he did things was very wrong. God will get him for hurting meltodd she is a good person and didn't do anything wrong but now she did she left that precioucus little grand son with no grandma cook and me with no sister. Now i am crying and so is her son and mother. She said she would be back in a couple weeks but i really don't think so. I am gonna have to go pack her stuff and put it in storage for her so when she is done chaceing a man who really don't care she will have her belongings. Will keep ya posted on meltodd.
Missing my sister bunches!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Babygirl, thank you so much for the update. I hope that everything works out for her and she goes back home to you and her grandson. Wishing both you and her the very best.
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06-30-2009, 08:29 PM
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06-30-2009, 09:05 PM
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I hate that she went chasing after him.. but at the same time.. I understand the turmoil her mind is in.. been there.. done that... I hope it all works out for her...
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07-01-2009, 01:33 AM
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I hope that she doesn't get her heart stomped on when she gets there. If left her to move out of state it was for a reason. More like a someone. I am sorry but on thing that is a proven fact men are always going to have a back before moving on. They don't want to take care of themselves. Anyway wish her luck
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07-01-2009, 01:53 PM
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Awww Mel...dang it.  Take care of yourself.
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07-01-2009, 05:57 PM
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Are they near Dallas?
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