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ElleGee · 06-27-2009, 11:33 AM

Ugh damn hun I am so sorry this is happening!

SLance68 · 06-27-2009, 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Quaker_Parrots

She might have trouble selling it if it has a title. I would definately check that part of it out. If it doesnt have a title, sell it. It is still community property until divorce procedings start. Once the papers are filled, then comes the problem of getting in trouble with the court if anything is sold. He took all the money, wouldnt he get in trouble with the court as well if this were the case?

Most all boats do have a title. If it is titled in his name and hers and says "or" instead of "and" then she can sell it when ever she wants. If it is in just his name then DO NOT try to sell it. As for tools and stuff in the shed - have at it - take them to a pawn shop you will probably get more for them there and it will be quick.

mosdata1 · 06-27-2009, 04:52 PM

Please change the code on your garage door opener, or disconnect it all together. Change the locks on your doors and find out what you need to do to bar him from the house since he abandoned you. Get a new bank account, in your name only. If you have a joint account, remove his name - or if he took all the cash out of that one, & you don't get direct deposit - remove your name. Put a stop on all ATM cards. Make sure you are NOT on the hook, if he does anything financially stupid. If you have joint charge accounts put a stop on the cards & if you can, remove one of your names from the acct. If it's his acct & his responsibility - take your name off, if it's your acct & your responsibility - cancel his card immediately.
I am so very sorry this happened.

I will be hoping & praying for your strength.

fairydana · 06-28-2009, 01:50 AM

I am so sorry. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Girl, just stay strong. Cry when you need to. Keep your head up high. Its not your fault. You focus on you! You can do this and you will.

He is a dumbass! I am so sorry that he has hurt you!

SurferGirl · 06-28-2009, 12:45 PM

Mel, I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I send hugs and prayers and if you need to vent message me.

OmaLisa · 06-28-2009, 07:59 PM

Geesh, men are such PIGS!!!

I'm very sorry you are going through this. I do know how it feels but you will get through it a stronger, more confident woman. If you ever need to talk feel free to pm me.

fleabones3 · 06-29-2009, 04:16 PM

So how are things going for you now? Are you doing ok?

ilikefree · 06-29-2009, 05:01 PM

Sorry, I just got here today and just read about this. I don't know where you are in Ohio, but if you need help and I'm close enough to you, just ask. I can come and help you take his stuff somewhere to sell. I don't have anything to say that hasn't already been said, but you will be in my prayers.

babygirl08 · 06-30-2009, 03:22 AM

This is meltodd's sister babygirl08, with an up date meltodd packed and went to texas after him don't know no more than ya'll do but i agree that the the way he did things was very wrong. God will get him for hurting meltodd she is a good person and didn't do anything wrong but now she did she left that precioucus little grand son with no grandma cook and me with no sister. Now i am crying and so is her son and mother. She said she would be back in a couple weeks but i really don't think so. I am gonna have to go pack her stuff and put it in storage for her so when she is done chaceing a man who really don't care she will have her belongings. Will keep ya posted on meltodd.

Missing my sister bunches!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DAVESBABYDOLL · 06-30-2009, 05:38 AM

I hope Mel made the right choice. I mean, he left and then didn't want to talk to her after he got there, he left for a reason. I hope she gets what she seeks.

Thanks for the update.

NasCat · 06-30-2009, 08:19 AM

Oh, my