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speedygirl · 06-26-2009, 10:26 PM

I'm sorry that this is going on. You at least deseve the decency of an explanation. To take all of the money is unforgivable. What a jerk. Big hugs.

meltodd69 · 06-27-2009, 12:14 AM

Thank you everyone. My sister came over and picked me up and we went to her house for a bit.
I messed up and had a smoke. Made me sooooo dang sick for hours. Did not help my stomach at all or my nerves. Its so tied up in knots.

I really wish I knew what was going through his mind. I talked to his mother and she had no clue either. His brother was upset because he bought a train ticket to come up for christmas. I told him I am still his sister and come see me.

I can count on one hand how many times we have ever had a fight. Why is this happening? We even had plans for the 4th of July. My mom said he will probably get half way there and turn around. I have this feeling that is not going to happen.

My little dogs run and bark everytime they hear a noise. They think its him. This is one sad house a grown arse woman bawling her eyes out and three depressed dogs.

YankeeMary · 06-27-2009, 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by meltodd69

Thank you everyone. My sister came over and picked me up and we went to her house for a bit.
I messed up and had a smoke. Made me sooooo dang sick for hours. Did not help my stomach at all or my nerves. Its so tied up in knots.

I really wish I knew what was going through his mind. I talked to his mother and she had no clue either. His brother was upset because he bought a train ticket to come up for christmas. I told him I am still his sister and come see me.

I can count on one hand how many times we have ever had a fight. Why is this happening? We even had plans for the 4th of July. My mom said he will probably get half way there and turn around. I have this feeling that is not going to happen.

My little dogs run and bark everytime they hear a noise. They think its him. This is one sad house a grown arse woman bawling her eyes out and three depressed dogs.

If he would I would be darned if he would get back in MY house. I mean he took all monies, basically that says he doesn't give a crap if you have food to eat or anything. This in the long road might turn into the best thing that has ever happened to you. I sure hope so. I imagine you are just sick. Hugs to you and those little doggies of yours.

fleabones3 · 06-27-2009, 12:29 AM

I agree with what someone posted earlier. He at least should call and give an explanation. People just dont come home one day and decide ah hell, I dont want to be here , Im leaving. Whats in Texas he could be missing that much?

ilovecats · 06-27-2009, 12:31 AM

I have spent a long time trying to think of something to make you feel better,all I can say is "sorry".If my hubby left right now I don't know what I would do,I would be homeless.Wishing you good luck.If you need a friend,I am a little short,feel free to pm me.

missteena · 06-27-2009, 12:37 AM

Wow. That is pretty shocking...after 15 years!!!!!!

I really have nothing much to say other than you can do it. Just stay close to everyone else in your life.

ttistin · 06-27-2009, 12:41 AM

You will get through this. You will be a much stronger person after all this. You are a good person with a great mom, son and new grandson.

You are not alone, you have people!

WendyLou75 · 06-27-2009, 12:44 AM

I hate to say it, but it may not be WHAT he's missing as much as it is WHO he's missing. It just seems to me that maybe there's someone else? Mid Life Crisis like someone said? I know I'm not helping but it just occurred to me that there's probably someone else...
I'm sorry though...

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Originally Posted by fleabones3

I agree with what someone posted earlier. He at least should call and give an explanation. People just dont come home one day and decide ah hell, I dont want to be here , Im leaving. Whats in Texas he could be missing that much?

meltodd69 · 06-27-2009, 12:51 AM

Oh I told him if he left not to come back ever. I don't care if you turn around 100 miles from here. You wasted money that we needed for bills. I am soooo hurt but then I'm pissed too. Does that make sense.
I am going to box up his crap and have a garage sale! He didn't take his boat! Guess what, GONE! When I can break into the shed that stuff is gone too. Yeah he took the key. And he took my mom's garage door opener. She biotched for a second, then stopped cause I was crying again.
I feel like I wasted my life. I didn't do a thing to deserve this. I was nothing but good to him.

He was always upset because I put my son first, but he knew that when he married me. I made that clear, my child will always come first. I found out my son said good riddins when he talked to my sister. I always thought he liked him. They went fishing together and worked on cars. God don't tell me my son was unhappy all those years! That will kill me for sure. Maybe he was saying that because of my break down with him. And he knows I'm hurting.
Bright side I get my grandson in the morning. I am going to hold him sooooo tight. I hope I don't squish him lol.

WendyLou75 · 06-27-2009, 01:02 AM

You're 100% right, YOU didn't do ANYTHING wrong. It's HIS loss...he must be a moron. I don't really know you, but I read your posts...and you seem like a wonderful, caring, intelligent, strong woman.
The fact that he took the key and the door opener tells me that he'll be back, in the night of course, to get his ****...wouldn't let that happen if I was you.

WendyLou75 · 06-27-2009, 01:05 AM

You're 100% right, YOU didn't do ANYTHING wrong. It's HIS loss...he must be a moron. I don't really know you, but I read your posts...and you seem like a wonderful, caring, intelligent, strong woman.
The fact that he took the key and the door opener tells me that he'll be back, in the night of course, to get his ****...wouldn't let that happen if I was you.