fairydana

Oh taz, I am so sorry that you are going through all of this! I just hate to hear this. I know its hard but stay strong and keep your mind right. It is not your fault.
Big hugs to you girl! I wish I could do more.

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Mary Jo

If you are married get a lawyer.
If you have credit cards jointly get your name off of them, also car insurance.
I am sorry to hear this. Protect yourself. Protect yourself financially no matter how amicable he may seem now.
Do something nice for yourself.
If he did this to you he'll probably eventually do it to the new one.
Hugs to you.

dangerousfem

I am so sorry.. man men can really suck sometimes...

I am glad you are being smart about it all.. get everything in writing... like the above poster said.. protect yourself and your credit.. no matter how nice he seems right now.. also get copies of those texts.. call your phone company and get them... you may need them in court..if you don't get them now.. they may not be available later.

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dangerousfem

I also wanted to add... even though it may not seem like it now... I really think in the long run you are going to be happier...

Didn't he pull this crap last year right around the same time? Not the woman thing.. but leaving.. tearing up the family.. stressing you and the kids... none of you need this junk in your lives over and over.. its mental abuse.

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ElleGee

Damn it.. I was sure hoping it wasn't going to go that far.. I am so sorry

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vicky122

I am really sorry things did not work out for you. But by your post you are a smart women going to the bank and getting things in writting.

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Kelsey1224

I'm so sorry. As the other posters have said, you are a smart woman and seem to be taking care of everything you need to.

Hugs!!!

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LitWtch

Wait a minute - isn't she the one who was making out with her "fiace" when you flew out and went to the office? And he is "in lurve" with her? Good riddance! I'd be doing more than transfering funds, that's for certain.

I'm sorry you are dealing with such a mess, but be strong for your children and yourself.

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sunniekiss

Sorry to hear about this. Mine fell "in love" with a skank after a 25 year marriage. Last count he has been "in love" with at least 10 other skanks in the past 4 years.
Don't 100% count on his paying rent & utilites for the next year & 1/2 especially when he finds out he has to also pay child support.
They say one thing & do the exact opposite.
Good luck.

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1busymomma

I'm really sorry you are going through this.

peaceluver

I am sorry.