April78945

That a man can be married to a woman for 8 years, go through infertility and eventually IVF, have a miracle baby and then...6 years later ask for a paternity test?

They can.

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cpbaby

The #$%^ he did!

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Sophie
dob. 01/09/04

iluvmybaby

Sounds like he cheated and is having the paranoid syndrome thinking YOU cheated

Jenefer3

I think it's just one more way to be an a$$. He know's that's going to piss you off so he does it. One more stress to cause you. I'd tell him that you're perfectly fine with the paternity test and act like it's not a big deal to you, even if you really just want to jab a hot poker in his nuts.

If that's what he did and you find that out, I'd be letting him know you'll be going to the doctor to get tested and make sure he didn't give you anything.

Bick'sMom

Aren't ex's wonderful sometimes? Mine swore up and down that if I ever left he would fight me for the kids because he loves them soooo much. Then he had the nerve to ask for paternity tests on all of them! Now he hasn't spoken to them in 3 years. I hope yours at least stays in touch with his kids.

Sorry for whatever you are going through, I wish you the best.

gmyers

You ever noticed paternity isn't brought up till they have to pay child support. I think that is insulting to the woman. Its like saying you were the one who cheated. Maybe if he's the one who cheated you should have him get tested for std's so you can know you're safe. What a jerk.

ssgjeg

I think it's more insulting to the child. It's like saying "your mine and I'll claim you unless I have to pay for you." It's like telling them the money for child support is more important than they are.