PrincessArky

Oh sweetie you have been through so much I just hoped you werent gonna have anything like this happen......I swear if I had the money I would buy you that house........I really would. I keep thinking everytime I buy a lotto ticket I will win and do SO many good things for ppl that really need and deserve it.........I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers

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sheila_361

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gmyers

What does he say when you ask him I thought you gave the house to me? Mn people can really be mean sometimes I feel for you. I hope somehow he changes his mind.

magickay

As much as it sucks to lose your house, you are going to be *free* of this man and the sucking vortex of his unhappiness. Can you just imagine how liberating the experience is going to be? Now that you know the house is going, you don't have to have that continued worry/threat of losing it hanging over your head.

Of course, being without shelter isn't very comforting, but there are resources out there that will enable you to be less dependant on him. Don't give him another thought right now. He's not making you crazy -- you make yourself crazy thinking about all this BS he's manifested in your life. Don't give him that power!

If you are bright enough to want to pursue paramedic/EMT training (and you must be bright to take on that challege--and I salute that) -- you are smart enough to move on with your life and leave him behind. It's tough when a parent doesn't recognize the havoc and trail of destruction they can leave on their children. It would be worse for you to continue to carry that burden.

Be FREE -- and be happier for it.

ma4angels

I am sorry that your dad is being mean to ou. I understand about Dad's acting stupid. I have had to distance myself from mine for a while because he is real good at hurting my feelings. Just don't give up on your dreams please start school in 2 days anyway. The house hasn't sold yet. You also have so many days after that to find a place to live. Maybe there is something reasonable in the same area you are in. Don't ever give up, where there is a will there is a way. I will be praying for you.

renaissanceman

I encourage you to free yourself of the burden of being his daughter.

Do NOT have anything to do with him, dont let him see his grandkids, adn I haet to say this, let him know that you and his Gkids will NOT be at his funeral!

Let him know that what he does has repercussions! He has other financial options, but I guess losing that boat so his daughter and her kids have a place to live isnt a good trade off for soemone so selfish.

You and I have had some words in the past, but man I am sorry for this!

Keep in mind that ALL of us will EVENTUALLY get just what we deserve. You shouldnt wish evil on him, but its nice to know that there is justice; that things do sometimes balance.

I will pray that god helps you work this out.

Mom2Shaun

Wow, what a horrible guy! But here's some comfort; the real estate market is so slow that it is unlikely he'll be able to sell it for months and months! So start your EMT course; you'll probably have finished it by the time the house actually sells! Then you can move on to your new life!

Oh, and I would be sure NOT to pick up the house before buyers came to look!

gravittr

damn. what the hell is he thinking throwing his grandkids out on the street. tats so stupid

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flute

It is slow. But I know a teacher who just sold her house in 10 days, so honestly anything can, & will happen!


BWAHAHAHAHAHa, that is a good one!

MsLynn

if i find someplace to move he probably won't like the paint job i put on the walls, its white paneling and he'll have to replace it, lol since you can't really paint paneling and make it look good, lol but he'll sure know what i think, lmao

whatever

Wow, i'm so sorry for you!! this would be something my dad would do to me.
I can't believe how family can really be so mean to their own kin!!
I hope what they say "one door closes, another one opens" comes true for you!!

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