Does it never end??? ( Just complaining no need to respond) - Big Big Forums

ezmoney163 · 02-14-2004, 12:34 PM

I swear my luck is the worst!! My DH says it is our last name, I think it is just me!!

First he had the electric line incident, not thatthat wasn't enough he had to get a speeding ticket last night!! For going abotu 5 mph over the limit

Will we never get ahead??

I had two kids one listens half the time the other none of the time.

My house is a disaster, and I just sat here yesterday and tried like crazy to clean it. ( DH says not to worry we have kids but OMG when will I be able to walk with out stepping on a car, truck, doll, crayon, food) Argh!!!!

I just want to cry. I am trying to get this RAOK going and had a ton of response in the beginning, but after people find out what it is for I am hearin gnothing back. Why??? I donno what is going on there. Not even a 1/3 of the people who PM ed me for info has gotten back to me about what they want to do or if they do not want to participate at all. Then I actually had had people try to tell me well you should do this or that, well I am sorry I am doing it like you would want me to, but this is how I planned it and this is what I am doing. If you wanna help I would appreiate it, if you don't you should not try to tell me how to do what I am trying to do. And it is not one person but several. I can not believe it. I could just cry right now I am so upset.

then on top of everything my husband is so stressed out about his job , I swear he is gonna give himself a heart attack. He could not even sleep last night. So I am up all night worring about that. I am already so tired I can barely function.

WHY OH WHY !!!! When will it end???

Had to vent and get it off my chest.

thanks so much no need to respond!!!

freeby4me · 02-14-2004, 12:40 PM

Im so sorry things arent going good right now. We're here for you whenever you need us! Im sending good vibes your way

ttistin · 02-14-2004, 12:58 PM

{{{Hugs****** I hope things start getting better for you guys, dont worry about the house. It will get cleaned someday but for now dont worry about it.

I have 3 kids, none of them listen to me lol not even half of the time. LOL

aimefisher · 02-14-2004, 01:20 PM

To the RAOK part, I will be getting everything I can together over the weekend and will mail it on Tuesday.

rlynn411 · 02-14-2004, 01:20 PM

Sorry to hear that your having a bad day. With any luck it will get better.

I'll be sending my contribution to your RAOK on Tuesday or Wednesday at the latest.

Whitequeen39 · 02-14-2004, 01:24 PM

I am sorry so much is getting you down. I know how you feel, just try to hang in there, things are bound to get better it just may not be as soon as you would like. As far as the RAOK, I know it is frustrating when you don't get the response you had hoped for and then to top it off people giving you a hard time...You stick with doing it how you planned and don't listen to the negative. I am sure that in the end whatever you get together will be greatly appreciated. And to everyone here...COME ON YOU GUYS, I THOUGHT YOU WERE ALL FOR HELPING EACH OTHER.
Okay before I step on any toes I am going to quit...
Big hugs to you Brandy and I am here for you if you want to talk...you have my e-mail.

Michelle

jonette5 · 02-14-2004, 02:11 PM

(((((((((((ezmoney)))))))))))

Just over-look the mess in the house from the kids. One day they will be grown and gone and you will wish you still had toys to trip over. I know that seems impossible (Barbie shoes, match box cars and legos hurt like he!! in the middle of the night!LOL)but believe me! My oldest is leaving in Aug. for college and I am already crying and wishing she was little again.

I hope things get better for you real soon! Hugs and prayers!

ezmoney163 · 02-14-2004, 02:27 PM

Thanks guys !! I think I am getting that darn pregnancy depression. Then on top of that the ticket is more money outta our pocket we really don't have, then my little ones are eating in the living room and they are not supposed to and I just had to scrape some kinda chocolate cake thing off the carpet. My DH will be so mad if he sees it cuz they are not allowed in here w/ food or drink. But when he is at work they dont care cuz they dont listen to me. I understand it takes people time to get stuff out. I appreciate all that have responded, what gets me is just that after I say what it is for that some don't get back to me, kinda like well let me be nosey and see what it is for??? I hate thinking anyone would be like that but I do. I would never ask what was going on to just be noisey. I donno maybe it is my hormones. Like Christi said maybe I have been waking up on the wrong side of the pregnancy bed. LOL

You guys are great!! I appreciate you all being here for me.

(((HUGZ)))
Love ya all!!

ImaGApeach · 02-14-2004, 02:45 PM

{{{{BRANDY**********
I'm here if you need to talk or if there is anything else I can do.
I know exactly how you feel about kids and the house!

laughsalot · 02-14-2004, 02:53 PM

big hugs to you!!

cch · 02-14-2004, 09:51 PM

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Originally posted by ezmoney163
Then I actually had had people try to tell me well you should do this or that, well I am sorry I am doing it like you would want me to, but this is how I planned it and this is what I am doing. If you wanna help I would appreiate it, if you don't you should not try to tell me how to do what I am trying to do. And it is not one person but several. I can not believe it. I could just cry right now I am so upset.

Well I am one of those people who had questions about the way you're doing it, but I was by no means trying to tell you how to do it!

As far as the kids, there is probably only 5% of kids in the world that have ever listened to their parents all the time! I know I never listed to mine and they always told me my kids would pay me back for it, and they are. I always tell my little devils that they can make a mess, I cannot control that, but if I step on something it's going in the trash! They didn't believe me at first, but after a few of their favorite toys really left the house; first set outside, then donated, but the kids think I threw them away; now they believe me!

Oh, and I just sent you another email.
Christy