I'll start from the beginning. In '98 I had a miscarriage. It was devestating. Still is.
Anyway my brother married the b**ch in Nov '99. She got pregnant in Dec '99. She then had my niece Sept '00. My sil had to stay in the hosptial after Grace was born because my sil claimed she was deathly ill. The doc couldn't find anything wrong with her. Well, while she was in the hospital, she refused to let my brother take Grace home. So the hospital said someone had to be with Grace at ALL times. The staff didn't want Grace there and they weren't going to do anything for Grace. So I stupidly volunteered to stay 1/2 day with the b**ch since no one else could.
The woman went on a b**chin spree. She trashed me to no end. Then trashed the nurses. With me she said that I didn't have a miscarriage and that I was jealous of her. Hummmmmm 98-00 I don't see how I could be jealous when I told everyone about the miscarriage in "98 and this was now 2000
She told me I didn't know what I was talking about. Then she starts screaming for her medication. She was on percacet(sp?) and wanted it every freakin 5 minutes. A nurse came in and told her she would get it again in 4 hours. Boy, Gwen went off.
She had the doctor come in with a nurse and started ripping the poor nurse's A$$ and then yelled at me because I didn't tell the doc how poorly they were treating her.
My mom comes up to the hospital to relieve me and told me there was a nurse in the hallway crying. my sil then told my mom how awful they were treating her and that they told her she wasn't the only person they had to attend to. Then the doc and nurse comes back in and the nurse apologizes to my sil
My mom had the hospital transfer my sil to another hospital and two days later the b**ch was back home. I told my mom what she did to me and my mom really didn't say anything. There is more to the story but it's little stupid things the B**ch did and said and I don't feel like typing for the next ten years.
When my mom told me the b**ch was pregnant again, i told her that I'm not staying with her again. Never again.
I don't like my sil. She says one thing to me and then tells my parents a lie and my parents believe what she says.
Not too long ago my sil said some more hurtful things to me and I told my mom that I didn't want to have anything to do with my sil again and that I'll only deal with my nieces.
I then told my mom what Gwen did to me at the hospital and that it still hurts me and that I'll never get over and my mom had the nerve to tell me that she doesn't remember what happended and that I should forget what Gwen said since it's the past.
Apparently my mom went to Gwen recently and told her what I said Gwen did to me in the hospital three years ago.
Gwen denied everything. Now my brother says I have TO APOLOGIZE TO MY
SIL.
I went to my niece's 3rd bday party and I just found out I wasn't invited and my mom said I was only because she didn't know what to do.
My sil is suppose to have a c-section Oct 1, and my brother says I can't come to the hospital unless I apologize.
My dad and mom are upset because they're in the middle.
I told my dad this is between my sil and me. No one else and that my brother should butt out and that no one had the right to tell Gwen that I am still upset about what she said.
Am I wrong. Should I APOLOGIZE to her for TRASHING ME!!!!!!
My dad then had the nerve to tell hubby that I need to get on pill cuz I'm depressed and that the pill will solve ALL MY PROBLEMS!!!
HUMMMMMMM.......Will prozac get rid of muscle, nerve and tissue damage that I received from a car wreck. Good grief. YOu mean the docs have had me on all these pain meds and all I needed was prozac???
He basically told hubby that I'm not disabled, just depressed.
I didn't know my dad was a shrink?? Boy, I'm learning new things everyday. My mom is on my sil side and there is nothing that will change that. She worships the ground Gwen walks on. Gwen is like.....
An angel sent from Heaven according to my mom. My family is blaming me for everything. I didn't get into the accident so I could loose my house, my savings, my stuff, basically my life that I used to have. I didn't asked to be disabled and spend the last four years fighting for disability only to be denied again and again. I didn't make my parents and brothers get on anti-depressants. I am dealing with all my problems head on. I'm not hiding behind medications. They're acting like the meds will make everything go away. It's still there.
Life isn't perfect and they're acting like I'm ruining they're fairy tale. I'm the wicked witch.
My whole family has turned against me and the one person that gets mention more then anybody is my sil and how she's doing this and she's doing that but it's ok for her to do everything wrong. She chose to quit work. I didn't. She chose to have three kids. I didn't get her pregnant and I didn't choose to have the miscarriage. I didn't choose to have my life turned upside down. She's created the problems she's having herself. I'm the only one in my family (mom,dad, two brothers and one sil) who isn't on anti-depressants and it's all they talk about. how I'm NOT on them. I'm proud to say that I'm not on them. I think for all the HE!! I've been though for the past 5 years, I'm doing pretty well. I get up every morning and do the things that need to be done. I help hubby with the laundy and dishes and I help with the groceries. My parents haven't cleaned the house in a year. My mom and dad sleep all day except when the work. My mom calls in sick all the time. She's pi$$ed at me because I've been diagnosed with sinus problems, migrains, allergies and she goes to the doc almost once a week, has had all these test run and the docs can't find a thing wrong. She feels like she should have all these problmes, not me. He!! I would gladly give everyone all my medical problems. No ?s asked. Take them.
I know I'm rambling but this is what I deal with EVERYDAY!.
Should I apologize to my sil for trashing me??? Am I missing something?? She trashed ME and I'm suppose to apologoze to HER??
I'm cutting all ties with my sil and brother. It hurts me that I'll never see my new niece when she's born and my other 2 nieces will not remember me but should I bow down to the b**ch like everyone else??
I mean everyone bows to her. She sanps her finger and everyone comes running. I'm not kidding. Everyone waits on her hand and foot like she's the Queen. Yeah, Queen B!!!!!!!!
Sorry this is so long but I don't need this right now. I have enough problems with my life that I don't need my sil involved and my parents act like I'm ruining her life and theirs.
What should I do??? I am not APOLOGIZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I refuse to do that. She did ME wrong.
my sil is RUINING MY LIFE!!!!!!! long
I didn't mean it to sound that way if it did.
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