Did you ever just want to jump in a hole and stay there?? - Big Big Forums

christianw27 · 09-18-2003, 08:02 PM

I started out my day today by falling down the driveway and hurting myself, not to mention the fact that it messed up my outfit.

Then my mom and dad offer to sell me this trailer they used to live in for $5,000 which I think is a good deal, puts me in the country, out of the city (i hate it here), puts my son in an excellent school instead of this school district. But my bf doesn't want to (of course) he wants to stay here in this house that belongs to him, I don't want to, I'm not comfortable here. Does any of that matter, no

. This house isn't even big enough and I don't know what to do.

Should I just go buy it myself and move, should I just go jump in a hole and stay there and hide or what....My back and leg and ankle hurt so bad from falling down the driveway today

nosamiam · 09-18-2003, 08:41 PM

I know how you feel. I need a hole too!

I say since your not married go ahead and get the trailer. Do you already have the land?

I hope you start to feel better soon!

Dragonfairie · 09-18-2003, 08:42 PM

Honestly, you should do what is best for you and your child. BF's come and go. If moving makes you happy then go for it. If he really cares for you he will come around. You will own your own place (becoming independent), your child will benefit by being in a better environment and school and it sounds like this is what you want.

Sorry you hurt, I am the biggest klutz on earth and can actually twist my ankle just sitting in bed. I know how you feel right now. Things will get better.

Angelseyes28 · 09-18-2003, 09:05 PM

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Originally posted by Dragonfairie
Honestly, you should do what is best for you and your child. BF's come and go. If moving makes you happy then go for it. If he really cares for you he will come around. You will own your own place (becoming independent), your child will benefit by being in a better environment and school and it sounds like this is what you want.

My thoughts exactly!!

I hope things work out for you, and if you find a hole to climb in make sure it's big enough for the rest of us

DOOFIS · 09-18-2003, 09:09 PM

Did you ever just want to jump in a hole and stay there??

YES!!!

I hope you feel better. I fell the other day too.

christianw27 · 09-18-2003, 10:19 PM

well, the trailer is already set up on a piece of property, i would be paying lot rent to my mom and dad, they have 35 acres with a house and two trailer lots, they just bought the house and 30 acres from my grandpa they already had the other 5 acres. they told me i could rent the treailer too if I didn't want to buy it right off, they told me they would help me get my son off to school and off the bus every day.

Honestly when I fell this morning I just wanted to sit there and cry..

Angelseyes28 · 09-18-2003, 10:26 PM

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Originally posted by christianw27
well, the trailer is already set up on a piece of property, i would be paying lot rent to my mom and dad, they have 35 acres with a house and two trailer lots, they just bought the house and 30 acres from my grandpa they already had the other 5 acres. they told me i could rent the treailer too if I didn't want to buy it right off, they told me they would help me get my son off to school and off the bus every day.

Honestly to me that sounds too good to pass up. Not only will you be giving your son a better living environment but also a better education AND your parents are gonna help ya?! Heck girl I say go for it. Your boyfriend has to understand that you and your son are a package deal and as such he has to think of what's best for your son. If he isn't willing to do that then I say leave him behind b/c you and your son deserve better. JMHO {{{{hugs********

MamaFairal · 09-18-2003, 10:34 PM

If you dont want it ....i do!

I'll even move to Ohio..........lol

Girl get those moving boxes ready cuz you have a new home and a family support system to help with your son.......GO GO GO!
You still here?

Dolly<3 · 09-19-2003, 02:31 AM

I agree w/everyone else! I think you should go.

What reasons do you have for staying besides that your BF wants you to? Is there something else? If not, then go for it. Your BF can visit you and you him.

momfromTN · 09-19-2003, 07:22 AM

The welfare of your child comes first to some boyfriend. But, I am sure you know this. Do what you have to do.

morris2b · 09-19-2003, 07:56 AM

I agree with the other posters..

Do not let this opportunity pass you up..
You and your child should always come before any man, I learned this the hard way..
You can make it, you have your BBS friends here to support you mentally, but physically you can do it..
Hang in there!