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Old 06-27-2003, 01:35 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Angry OMG jaybird is VENTING! Hubby's toe and hospital!

Yes, believe it. I'm VENTING! And I'm steaming hot farking livid.

Some of you know that Chuckles (my husband) 'hurt' his toe Sunday at my sil's house. The booboo broke & nearly severed his big toe, 24+ stitches and the broken bone was through the skin. We went to the hospital, had him treated, stitched (they had to cut part of his toe out to sew it up) did an iv antibiotic there, follow up visit on Thursday ... blah blah blah. He has been on antibiotics since Sunday. I've cleaned, medicated and changed (BLEAGH) his dressing twice a day for 4 days.

1pm doctor appointment today w/ the plastic surgeon that stitched him up. I medicated and changed his dressing at 10am. Toe looked a little 'tender,' seemed a little more swollen for day 4. Got to the doctor, his toe front & back, and about 1" onto his foot was bright red. Dr. pulls out 3 stitches, opens up the wound and swabs it to have a culture done. (Chuck swears he used a 4'x4' with a diaper on the end of it to cram up in there). Dr. says he's admitting him for iv antibiotics, may have to open up the wound. This was 1:15. Now we're in Belleville, 2 hospitals there (about 20 minutes from my house)--not by choice, because that was the closest ER Sunday night and we had the follow up visit today. Office calls St. Elizabeth (lesser of 2 evils) for a direct admit, 45 minutes later they still haven't called back . This is about 2pm. Dr. says I want him in now, try Memorial. They just put a very light gauze dressing on him to get him to the hospital. I tell the nurse in admitting, we need to get this dressing off, it's dry and it is going to stick to the wound when the bleeding stops. At 3:30 still nothing. At 4:30 they get him in a room finally. Still no new bandage. I "politely" (I WAS polite at first) asked the nurse to do this. At 5pm Dr. Sal comes in, orders a dressing change. At SEVEN PM - STILL NO DRESSING CHANGE AND NO IV. At 7 the infectious doctor comes in, orders the iv. The nurse comes in, I said, "CHANGE THE DRESSING, it's dried and stuck to his wound. She said it was 'shift change' but she'd remind his new nurse to do it. At 8pm - - NO F*CKING DRESSING. I went down the hall, grabbed a nurse, drug her to Chuck's room. I said, see this? It's 24+ stitches. It was supposed to be re-dressed 6 hours ago. It's dried to the wound. Either change it now or I am. She starts to PULL off the gauze, I grabbed her arm and said, go get some saline and soak this off. So FINALLY, she comes back at 8:40, and by 9pm he has a new bandage. At 9:15 when I left he STILL didn't have his IV.

I HATE Belleville hospitals. I have said for YEARS that if I get hurt or have a heart attack in B'ville, just dump me on the side of the road and let me die. DO NOT take me to either of the hospitals and let them kill me. It's been a standing joke for 25 years with me. But I'm dead (no pun intended) serious.

And if ANYONE EVER says ONE thing to me about underpaid and overworked nurses, I am going to clock them. Three times during each shift I walked past the nurses' station and there's 5-6 or 7 of them sitting on their *sses jacking their jaws.

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.

Yes I'm farking pissed.

He's going to be in at least until Sunday. He thinks he's leaving at noon to go to his mom's 87th party on Sunday. They said he'd still be in. Will take 24 hours to get the initial results on the culture, 48 for a final reading. I'll be surprised if he's home Sunday unless I drag his ass out of there tomorrow and take him to a real hospital. Sarah's worried it's a staph infection, because the cellulitis is most often a result of strep or staph bacteria. I'm concerned she's right. To complicate things, "Stubby" is allergic to tetanus AND penicillin.

I'm a very easy going person unless you mess with my family or friends. There's no excuse for incompetence or worse, laziness. I'm not the sort that would ever be 'sue happy,' but trust me, I am documenting EVERYTHING, times, incidents etc., on paper. They (Sunday night) were already concerned the wound was so deep that the tissue wouldn't recover and they would have to do skin grafts. If anything remotely associated to this fiasco causes further infection or gangrene or tissue death that would lead to him losing this toe, someone's head will roll.

Thanks for letting me dump on you. My kids and mom don't need to hear it. You can just hit the back button at any time. This would upset them.

And how's your week going?
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Old 06-27-2003, 01:45 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I don't blame you for being mad. I would be absolutely livid.

Definitely keep track of everything.

I hope he gets to feeling better soon and that you don't have to kill any nurses or other staff.
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Old 06-27-2003, 01:49 AM   #3 (permalink)
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All I can do is offer you some hugs-and pray til my head falls of that the hospital I am going to isn't like that! What a nightmare! {{{{JB and Stuckles************
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Old 06-27-2003, 01:50 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I'm just a PM, email or phone call away whenever you need to vent.
I very nearly called you on the drive home but my cell was dead! You're lucky!
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Wow!! That's just ludicrous on their part. Sorry for all that your husband is going through, that must hurt like h*ll!!! Keep a watch and keep documenting, but hopefully nothing will come of it.
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I am sorry. I would have dragged one off them to the room an hour after he got there AND called the nursing supervisor for not having his IV hooked up. I worked in hospitals for 16 years. I quit to work for a private Dr's office after seeing too much of the bullcrap you just went through. I know a few VERY good nurses. They want to know why there is a nursing shortage and this is why. They good ones get tired of dealing with the ones that won't get off their @sses and do nothing all day long. You can also pick up a phone and page a Dr STAT over the hospitals speakers and believe me he won't be happy that IV still isn't hooked up when your Hubby is that bad.
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It's not only your hospitals that are so inefficient...when my hubbie was in and out for a rash of problems over the past 3 years during one of his stays he was admitted at 830 am and got no food or pills til almost 500 pm and he is diabetic and a heart patient...and it wasn't because they needed to run tests or anything at that point..it was just laziness on the nurse's part...I hope all goes well for you..keep on their butts..and a little fyi for you..he contacted mrsa on his first stay...will never be rid of it..
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