Thread: WHAT IS IT WITH KIDS today , my daughter totally dumped me on mothers day

If you hold this much anger & you are seeing a therapist. I suggest finding a therapist who will help you pull yourself out of the past. Not recieving a mothers day card isn't the problem it just sparked your anger of past events toward your daughter.

If your exhusband admitted to molesting his daughter & he can still go to prison. I don't see any sane judge letting her live with him or why he never got arrested. You should have fought hard to keep your daughter away from a child molester. She may be upset with you because you did put forth the effort to protect her.

You already lost one child, just be thankful your other two are healthy & still alive. You need to get past of the past and live for today, yuou'll be a happier person if you can put things behind you and go forward. You can't change the past but you sure as hell can make the future better. G'luck.

Originally Posted by shadowcats

i am never forgotten by my son even my son that died he always called me or sent me a card, this year my oldest son sent me a sony walkman 8g for mothers day and i know he really shouldnt be spending that on me,
but my daughter , nada ,,,,, not even a card ,,,,,,,,,,,,,, NOT EVEN A DOLLAR GENERAL CARD, and this isnt even the first time she doesn t send xmas or birthday anythings ,,,,,,,,,, if she remembers she ll call, but mostly i get ignored , ive stopped sending anything to her or her hubby for holidays any more , i send to the grandkids but not to them ,and they are in the ministry ,,,,,,,,,, she posted on my facebook ,,,,,,,,, happy mothers day mom love tina ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, thats it , nothing more , nada ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,well she ll find out someday what goes around comes around and i hope God gets her good,
its her dads fault , when we divorced her dad who i wount say his name molested her , then he used mind tricks on her told her i was going to put her in a mental hospital cause i wanted to take her to a counciler, so she ran away to florida, i was living in miss, and the state said she was old enough to chose what home she wanted to live in ,,,,,,,,,,,, she chose her dad ,,,,,,,,,,, i raised such a stink they ended up putting her in a foster home with a friend of hers parents who sided with my ex, she was 15 at the time, this was three years after i left her cruddy dad for molesting her,,,,,,,,,i think she blames me for making her dad move out and getting a divorce,,,,,,,,,,, damn man married another idiot woman not even two weeks after the divorce , i love my daughter but she denies that she holds grudges and its like she doesnt remember any thing i did for her,,,,,,,,,, hell i paid the whole school cost for her private schooling and her clothes and toys everything , her damn dad was a skinflint , he sent all his money to his mom in canada , and other family members,,,,,,,, i worked just as hard as he did,,,,,,,, and more i took care of our family ,,,,,,,,,,, grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, this has made me so depressed
i tried talking to her about it but at 27 she totally blows me off ,but she calls her dad,,,,,,,,,,, and even went to visit him i wasnt even invited to her wedding , cause her dad said if i came he wouldnt ,,,,,,,,, grrrrrrrrrrrrr,
i cried all nite last nite because of her and missing my other son who died , if it wasnt for my oldest and his wife, i think i would have died years ago, from grief , between them and my husband and my best friend cheryl , i would have ended it long ago,,,,,,,,,,i know its old history but she has children now and i can call and talk to them but she barely has any time for me, i m lucky i get the face book contact,,,,,,,,,,,, her dad brainwashed her so badly , and her husband is nice but i dont know him, ,,,,,,,,,, and they really dont want any contact with me, his family is rich, my ex is a minister, how hes stayed a minister i dont know, but since i dont go holy roller , im not a good enough christian for them,,,,,,,,,,,,
oh well , sorry for the vent but i felt like screaming ,,,,,,,,,,, lol my therapist told me i should go to the woods and scream lol but i can see my new neighbors calling the cops ,,,,,,,,,,,, probley would think my hubby was killing me,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
since we moved now i ve got to find a new clinic.........
phoey ,,,,,,,,,,,,, so for now i had to vent this here,,,,,,,,,,,
sharon

IMO

Mom's don't hold grudges, moms never give up, moms NEVER wish any harm upon their child, moms are always there through thick and thin, especially through the thick, we are the bigger person, we are MOM.
When your child hurts your feelings, stomps on you, it is at that time that moms reach out even harder to our child/children~ that is usually when they need you the most.
Always be open, always be there, never close your ears, never close your heart.
Never give up on your child. Tell them that you love them, even if they don't want to hear it.

Never give up.
For that is your child.
Moms have an un-ending, forever forgiving heart to their "babies". That is what we are here for.

Originally Posted by msginna

yeh that is why I was wondering if this wasnt real... wishing harm to her own child for not giving her a gift. there is a story alright.... but it begins with wishing her daughter harm.... makes me wonder about the rest... but again that is me.. Gosh ya just aren't going to get a big hug from me and a you can do it!!!! after something like that REAL or FAKE lol

I'm sure she's being serious and not posting a thread for shock value. Some people are down right hateful to their children for the dumbest of reasons.

By her wishing harm on her daughter it is going to come back & bite her in the arse. You'll read posts wondering why this, why that... People can point her to this thread.

I'm not going to give out fake hugs or feel sorry for anyone who wishes harm on there own child. Even if they were venting - You just don't do that at all. If you want to wish someone harm, wish it upon yourself.