Thread: Can I have this prostitute arrested?

Aww.. honey! I wish there was something you could do. I wish there was something we could do. Hang in there!

So you're not married to him and haven't had sex in a while sounds like. The house is in his name and so is the bank accounts. It doesn't sound like there is much you can do. I doubt the police will do anything because of a photo.

take it all to them, they should do it. forward it all to your state bureau of investigation, they would be interested in the club she works in allowing the prostitution, and also the interstate drug trafficking. and if no one does anything, you're no worse off than you are now, but YOU KNOW YOU TRIED...

And trust me she'll be gone when his money runs out.. when he can't give her things/money anymore she'll be gone and he'll be busted and alone.. get out NOW anyway you can.. take what you can and go... NOW..

Sounds like she found her a really stupid sugar daddy. When the funds are gone,she will be too because there is no way the split between her legs will stay around once the funding is gone.

I'd find a way to get his money on the down low..you know,here and there skim off the top and put it in YOUR account.

Originally Posted by NoFoolPrice

Without going into a long story, I just found out that our life savings has been taken by a stripper/hooker. I have all the emails with them negotiating prices ($1,000 a pop!, no wonder he's so broke now) and pictures of her doing lines with a dollar bill. Also emails about him taking trips to Mexico to buy speed. Can I take this to the police or will they just laugh at me?

I hate to be a downer, but what are the police going to do? The money was not "taken", it was given to her, right? You can't arrest someone over a photo. If that were true, half of the people that have stuff on the internet would be arrested.

I know what you are going through-it feels like all the breath has been sucked from your body, Have you filed a FASFA for your daughter yet? She can get scholorships and federal grants for school. It is a federal form-www.fasfa.gov. Do it soon-usually by mid march most of the funding is gone.

Let him know you have copies of all the emails and pix and tell him to set up bank accounts for the kids or you'll forward them to the his work and the authorities. Maybe he'd do it on the off-chance he could get in trouble over it. Unethical, but he needs to provide for his kids.

We are not married, were at one time. I have been with him 26 years.

Originally Posted by NoFoolPrice

Of course not, it's his bank account, everything is in his name! I didn't dare pry into his business knowing that I could be out on the street in a second. I am disabled and have to rely on a very limited income. I have furnished his houses and paid for every blanket or dish here, I am the one that is in credit card debt for paying for the kids clothes, prescriptions, etc when he wouldn't. I am the fool that made his finances secure because I trusted him. I thought he was a good guy, so did others, my mom and my best friend are just as shocked as I, they thought I had lost my mind when I first told them. He kicked me out of his bedroom a couple years ago, fine by me, he got really freaky, obsessed with losing his hair and always wears dark sunglasses, he doesn't want anyone to see his eyes. Comes from a family with a lot of schizophrenics and frankly, I am scared of him. So i figured screw it, I am not a young or healthy woman, I will just live out my years at this house I love by the lake and let him do his thing. He would take off for weekends and come home telling me that he was at his buddies and didn't want to drive cuz he was drinking. I honestly had no idea that he was hooking up with online whores and paying strippers for sex. And yes, she is strictly a whore, he met her through an online site for prostitutes and she was stripping at a club an hour away from us. I have read all the emails, from the beginning when she was this poor student supporting her mom with the health problems, and now it is just demands for more money. He apologized to her for not meeting her financial requirements, begged forgiveness and yes, he agreed, $1000 is not too much to ask for a bj. He is hooked and she is going to take everything that we have worked for. Everything is printed out and forwarded, a friend came over and took all the print outs for safekeeping in case something happens to me, she knows the whole story and so do a couple of other close friends and my mom.

Originally Posted by NoFoolPrice

I have been sitting here pretending to be his wife and playing the good hostess. His family thinks we are married. They lost his mom and a cousin this year and the family came and stayed at my home while my Dot and I played the part and cooked and cleaned for them. Meanwhile, she was sending him pics of her naked upside down on a stipper pole. I am actually physically ill over this, I doubled my blood pressure meds but I feel like my body doesn't exist anymore. I know that doesn't make sense, I just feel really weird, lightheaded and so naseous.

Ok, this whole thing is farked...

you won't get a pity party from me -- you aren't married, you supposedly footed the bill for him yet nothing is in your name--- you are pretending to be married.

Why didnt you stay married?? Then you would have had a chance at something.

Kind of sounds to me like you were being really STUPID --- he has NO legal obligation to you -- NONE....he has a legal obligation to his children and only until they are 18.

What is wrong with you, that you are putting yourself in this situation????

So he wants to fark hookers -- big deal --- HE ISN'T MARRIED, he has his own money....and that is exactly how a judge would look at it too!!!