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Is it wrong...
To wish death upon my ******* soon to be ex husband? As much as I once loved him and all the promises we made to each other to be together forever..I just want him out of my life and to never be seen or heard from again.
Nothing special happened..I just want him to poof away. When I look at him I feel this urge in my to just leap on him and claw his face off. The dreams I have of taking his head in my hands and bashing his face into my kneecap are overwhelming.
UGH. This is going to be a long life if I have to have him around in it.
~APRIL~
Mom to
Caitlyn 9 and Davis 6
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07-31-2008 05:37 PM
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Well, yea...... it is wrong to actually wish anyone dead. Although, you can do it, but, ya got to worry about the 'what comes around goes around' cycle... at least I'd worry about it.
You can do everything else though ! You can hate his friggin' guts !!! LOL! But, believe it or not, a lot of that hate will fade away... I've got two ex'es, trust me, it does fade. Besides, it takes too much energy to hate !
Live happy and well, that'll get to him more than anything ! 
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I was going to say the same thing as Char. I'd be afraid it'd come back to haunt me if I wished death on someone. That said, despise the filthy bas*tard all you want and maybe his own *****ness will eat him up inside and who knows what else. 
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Originally Posted by
April78945
To wish death upon my ******* soon to be ex husband? As much as I once loved him and all the promises we made to each other to be together forever..I just want him out of my life and to never be seen or heard from again.
Nothing special happened..I just want him to poof away. When I look at him I feel this urge in my to just leap on him and claw his face off. The dreams I have of taking his head in my hands and bashing his face into my kneecap are overwhelming.
UGH. This is going to be a long life if I have to have him around in it.
you should be careful with what you post online -- since you don't have to log in to read, and it could be ANYBODY that is reading your posts -- if something did happen to him, this post will make you look very suspect....
and while the feelings of death are there, I am sure that you wouldn't want to make your children orphans either.
2 days from now, tomorrow will be yesterday.
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yes it is wrong...........I promise one day you will feel in different toward him.....thats when you will find the freedom and peace you are searching now. I had terrible feelings toward my ex for a long time and once I finally got to the point that I don't care one way or the other it was a relief.
Mom I miss you already
January 16, 1940 to April 29, 2009
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Yeah, it is wrong, but totally understandable. I know there were a couple of times if my ex had been in front of me I would gladly have shot him or beat him to death without blinking an eye. But, yeah, we shouldn't think that way, bad for the soul.
This is why they say that there is a fine line between love and hate. I know I was angry for a while about a lot of things. But, I decided that it wasn't worth the energy and just happy that he was gone. And even more happy when the kids turned 18 and I didn't have to deal with him ever again.
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Been there...done that. Particularly when years went by without getting any child support. I thought, well...if he was dead, I would at least collect survivors benefits from Social Security...LOL.
I can assure you that there will reach a point when you could care less about him.
We are refinancing our house and last night we signed all the docs. Because of all the identity theft, I had to provide information about my previous marrage/date of divorce, etc. Would you believe I couldn't remember exactly when our divorce was final. My hubby works for SSA and he says that people always forget that. I've always thought, "How do you forget something like that?" Well, I can tell you...I forgot because it is such a blip in my life. It's a good thing I had the divorce papers in a file or I never could have come up with the date...LOL.
Anyway...my ramblings are to show you that there will come a time when he won't matter much.
Never argue with an idiot. It will bring you down to his level and he’ll win because of experience.
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HUGS! Been there too. Now I dont even think about the ex slimball-good or bad.
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I think that the rage you are feeling is pretty strong....wrong? I can't judge if it is wrong for you, but for me it is...I would be very careful the words you choose. Karma really can slap you back.
Although he probably caused you a lot of heart ache, why can't you just move? Try to start another life? Move on from him. Take a new class, yoga...martial arts? Join a gym...SOMETHING to release the rage you have.
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Awww April ((((())))) That just made me so sad...it's unreal to think you can love someone so much, then hate the next....
If you ever need to talk, pm me
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Nah, I just wish festering sores on his genitals.
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