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So now we are a brothel?
My BIL has been living with us since Oct. It was only suppossed to be a couple of weeks and then thats it. Well, he is still here, living rent free, has only paid $30 towards groceries, bills etc. I have spoken up many times b/c DH has been off work from the latest surgeries and money is tight. DH is fine with it.
Anyway, BIL has been talking about bringing "women" into my house for overnighters. I am AGAINST this also but DH says he is a man. So for the past few days, I get up to a parade of diff. women using my bathroom, walking through my house, etc...
The last straw this AM was a woman walking in my kitchen who was over 50!! BIL is 27, WTH???????
I am trying to sweep, mop, clean etc and here comes a lady walking in thats old enough to be my mom. Is my house now a brothel??
Should I accept money at the door now or what?? UGH!!
Tonight there will be some 
laid down!
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12-03-2007 08:18 AM
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That's BS. Whether your DH says anything or not, it's your house also and your BIL should respect your wishes.
Strange women in my bathroom?? Not just no, but HELL NO! I'd go off!
And don't take money orders...CASH ONLY, IN ADVANCE! 
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He is a guest in your home....if he has 'needs'....he should go to their house!
Who wants strangers in their home? Very unsafe and unsanitary.....
Mrs Pepperpot is a lady who always copes with the tricky situations that she finds herself in....
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You're being taken advantage of. Why would your DH think this was ok?
Somebody needs to man up and kick the bum out. Looks like it's up to you. Give him 30 days. No exceptions. Or get used to that doormat feeling following you all day.
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Wtf
Oh HELL NO!, If he is unable to control his urges then he needs to go. This is disrespecting you and your hubby. You may want to ask these woman for money, in front of BIL since utilities and toiletries cost money, if he cannot pay then they can since they benefited from the stay.
When BIL comes down with clamitia,the clap or syphillis are you going to buy his meds? Time to go. Since hubby does not mind and you do. Why not tell hubby enough is enough and if he does not talk to bro, then you will be staying at a nearby hotel with room service. Money is tight but not tight enough for brother so you need a rest.
Me
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sounds like you need to have a serious sit down with him. Sometimes you really have to practice tough love with ppl that you love. We had to with our son.
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You are allowing BIL to walk all over you. Put your foot down and tell him it's time to go and he over stayed his welcome. As soon as he walks out the door, I'd change the locks
A wise man once said - if given enough rope, one will eventually hang themself
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All that is absolutely uncalled for. It is rude, disrespectful and just down right wrong. His sorry little behind would be out the door before it got in tonight. In the first place I would point out that you are NOT the Bank of Supporting Relatives nor are you the local free shelter for irresponsible, inconsiderate, immature idiots. And the unmitigated gall to bring strange women(and they must be strange to be able to just trapse through YOUR home like that) into YOUR home is just not an option!!! He could just take his little "manly needs" elsewhere! IF I allowed him to stay the rules would be he MUST pay a minimum of $100/week, in advance, for room and board and agreement would NOT include any overnight guests. Good Grief!!
You can say any foolish thing to a dog, and the dog will give you a look that says,"My God, you're right! I never would have thought of that." Dave Barry 
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there would be no more discussion's if it were me. his shit would be out on the lawn already and the locks changed.
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I think all three of you need to sit down like ADULTS and talk out a plan.
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I don't know why it amazes me but it does, being a woman and going home with a man to a home that really isn't his, then walking around in it. I would be sooooo embarrassed to walk out of his bedroom and into the kitchen, you would know I was only there for one reason. Oh heck no. I can't imagine BIL taking such a huge advantage of you and dh's kindness. He is in the wrong. I agree a nice long talk is in order. Good Luck.
The more you complain, the longer God makes you live.
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