Thread: need help please

and i am just curious as to why you want to disable your sons car
or did i miss that ?

Hi all and sorry I haven't replied yet but my life is so crappy and miserble I just haven't been in the mood. WAY too long a story but ever since my son got his license he has gone constantly, gotten several tickets, caused me more stress than I can take. My husband is a trucker and gone all wekk then comes home and doesn't punish Cory for anything I tell him about when he gets here. wants to be his "buddy" and I am sick of it. Anybody in the world would tell him that's a from of abuse, and that the husband and wife should be on the "same page" etc. then we have crapy stressful weekends then he's off on the road again and leaves me with the hell. Geez..way too much stuff to type but this car crap is gonna be the end of me. Dave says he can do all the stuff I tell him no..I'm confused and really feel too bad to type anymore right now. thanks for understanding all..I'll make it I guess.

....husband keeps paying his ins. and really everything is out of my hands. I am actually wanting to leave but just haven't gotten around to it. There are just so many other issues and I was miserable the day I posted..sorry all.

thank you (((beanie))) I can use any hugs I can get :-) I am a tuff old gal and been thru so much but nothing compared this. sigh....you made me feel better..

sorry to hear that your having so many hard times..
i feel for you...one question though...is your husband your sons real dad? just wondered cause you said he is his friend when he is home on the weekend..he needs to tell him that you are in charge and that what you say goes..that is just wrong he lets him walk all over you...your gonna have to pick yourself up from your boot straps start kickin butt and take no prisoners..if the car is in your name and your son is grounded from it..tell him if he takes it with out your permission you are going to turn him for stealing..your car..or something..sounds like your going to have to use some tough love on him...hang in there it will get better...member god never gives you more then what he knows you can handle............

Why does your husband have to punish him when he gets home? Why don't you? He doesn't listen to you and your DH overrules you? Let them have each other for awhile-it's called tough love. It sounds like you want to leave-so do it for awhile to get a better perspective on things.

And good luck. The best advice I can give is TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.

Oh, and if your son does something illegal/etc. guess who's considered responsible? YOU are.

Originally Posted by corkster

My husband is a trucker and gone all wekk then comes home and doesn't punish Cory for anything I tell him about when he gets here. I am actually wanting to leave but just haven't gotten around to it.

Just wanted to give you a hug,,,(((corkster))), and to say I hope it gets better for you.