Well isn't this just great!!!

**keen9801** · 11-30-2004, 10:10 AM

Oka when I post in the vent/whine section, its not to always cry and make people feel sorry for me, sometimes I just want someone to say very bluntly what they think I should do about a certain situation. I find it hard to stay away from here cause I can post things that are bothering me and get some really good advice, where as I really don't have anyone here at home that can give me the advice I need so bluntly in fear of hurting my feelings.

so with that said here goes :

What would u do if your b/f, hubby, sig other whatever refused to pay a bill and said that if you wanted it paid you need to take back the kids Christmas presents to pay it?

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**bulldog6186** · 11-30-2004, 10:15 AM

I would kick his arse out of the house, that's what I would do.

**adorkablex** · 11-30-2004, 10:17 AM

Depends on what the bill was. If it were something like cable/internet something you don't HAVE to have... No way in heck I'd do it. Something like the Gas, Electric or Water bill I'd say I'd get in touch with some of the organizations that help people in need out to keep these services on throughout the Winter. Also there are programs with most utility companies to help out with paying your bills.

Now if he should have or has the money to pay the bills and is just being a butt.. Tell him to grow the heck up and stop acting like a baby. Tell him that if he wanted to act immature and not pay bills he should have never had children. Tell him to grow his stupid butt up and get over himself.

And if you can type or be on the phone.. You should go over to www.sahm.com and look at some of the jobs you can have from home. They don't always pay great but it's something.

**Eyore** · 11-30-2004, 10:18 AM

I think there would be a really big argument and I would let me know he is a real jerk. I don't normally curse but I think some would be coming out.
Are these children yours and his together? If not maybe he resenting supporting them or something. ((Hugs)) hope you get things worked out.

**JLJFOREVER** · 11-30-2004, 10:20 AM

Originally Posted by Pepsi4me

You dont want to know what I would say!

THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING!

**D2230** · 11-30-2004, 10:20 AM

I would kick his arse out of the house, that's what I would do.

I would second that!
What kind of Jack#@! would have you take back kids gifts to pay a bill?

JMO
Michelle

**adorkablex** · 11-30-2004, 10:21 AM

Originally Posted by Eyore

I think there would be a really big argument and I would let me know he is a real jerk. I don't normally curse but I think some would be coming out.
Are these children yours and his together? If not maybe he resenting supporting them or something. ((Hugs)) hope you get things worked out.

I think they have 3. Two of them are theirs together and one is his.

**Eyore** · 11-30-2004, 10:24 AM

Originally Posted by adorkablex

I think they have 3. Two of them are theirs together and one is his.

Then that really stinks if they are his kids. Not that I think it should matter either way.

**keen9801** · 11-30-2004, 10:28 AM

I have a 6 year old son that lives here and he is not his, although he does claim him as his son, my 3 year old daughter lives here and is his and his 11 year old son doesn't live here and itsn't mine. So really we only have 1 together.

**buglebe** · 11-30-2004, 10:34 AM

Originally Posted by adorkablex

Depends on what the bill was. If it were something like cable/internet something you don't HAVE to have... No way in heck I'd do it. Something like the Gas, Electric or Water bill I'd say I'd get in touch with some of the organizations that help people in need out to keep these services on throughout the Winter. Also there are programs with most utility companies to help out with paying your bills.

Now if he should have or has the money to pay the bills and is just being a butt.. Tell him to grow the heck up and stop acting like a baby. Tell him that if he wanted to act immature and not pay bills he should have never had children. Tell him to grow his stupid butt up and get over himself.

And if you can type or be on the phone.. You should go over to www.sahm.com and look at some of the jobs you can have from home. They don't always pay great but it's something.

I went to www.sahm.com and it looked like it was in German. Am I missing something?

**shoppinqueen** · 11-30-2004, 10:35 AM

Just how much Xmas shopping has been done for the kids ? Perhaps he's upset because he thinks you're spending too much ?

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