OMG! i cant believe this! three local boys in three days

what is wrong?? the one boy was "dared" to swim accross the lake (albeit after a "dare" to swim accross the lake at O:dark 30 in the morning.) he drowned trying to get to the other side. (not sure if alchohol was in the sequence or not.... )another in a bad car accident when the local boy died but sent 4 elderly people on life flight. then just about an hour ago i found out my best freinds sisters ex hubby died... at only 44! still not sure what happenned with him... all i know is that my prayers are with them all at this time. life is sooo short!