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saw my neighbors husband out with another woman
This is something I always hoped would never happen to me. I ran into my neighbors husband out with another woman. My husband was with me. We had gone 75 miles from home to eat at a restaurant we had heard about. And here he walks in. I turned my back and tried to not see them or have them see me. They were affectionate with each other, I did see that much, so it wasn't a business meeting. I know he tells her a lot he has to go out on business dinners. Anyway , just to make it worse, he and I start out of the restaurant at the same time we happened to look up eye to eye. Now what do I do? I am thinking I am going to do nothing. I once told a friend of mine that her daughter , then 14, was smoking pot. She told her daughter and came back and told me , no she wasn't. I don't think anything anyone says will change my mind but I am curious what yall think.
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04-10-2010 03:34 PM
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Personally, I'd tell because I would want someone to tell me if that happened. JMHO
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Originally Posted by
stresseater
Personally, I'd tell because I would want someone to tell me if that happened. JMHO
Yeah that. I'd tell because I would want to be told. Be prepared tho, she might end up pissed at YOU instead of him. Sometimes people are weird.....
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I'd definitely want to know if it was me so yes I'd tell her. I did have something similar happen to me. I found out my best friend's huband was having a longterm affair. He was telling his wife he was on the road trucking when he was actually getting back into town and staying at his girlfriend's house. He had cheated before and swore it would never happen again then did that. Everyone was talking about it and how he was making a fool out of her. I told her and she found out it was true. She didn't get mad at me because she knew I had her best interest at heart. Mind you this guy treated her like crap to begin with. Always putting her down. She divorced him and remarried the nicest guy. He treats her like a queen. As far as I'm concerned her finding out and dumping the jerk was the best thing to happen to her.
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Be prepared for a neighbor war. Basically it's a "mind your own" type of deal. If you feel the need to tell, then tell, but you will be the bad guy. If you want drama with your neighbors, have at it.
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I believe people should know the truth so they can deal with the problem, but it's awkward because some get mad at the messenger. They don't want face the fact that something is happening. But, as I said, it's best to face it and deal with it so your life can be better.
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Are ya'll really close friends? If you're just on speaking terms and not close I don't think I'd tell her. But if ya'll are close to each other then yes I would. It would be hard to do but I would.
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Knowing that you saw him , I'm sure that he has already gone and told his wife that he saw you & your dh at the restaurant "WHILE" he was having one of his business meeting dinner .
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Originally Posted by
ahippiechic
Yeah that. I'd tell because I would want to be told. Be prepared tho, she might end up pissed at YOU instead of him. Sometimes people are weird.....
That's what I was gonna say
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I would def tell. If it were me I would want to know.
She may get mad at you. Which technically makes no sense at all. However for some reason people seem to get mad at the wrong people in those situations rather than their significant other who is the one to blame. In the end however if she finds out you knew and didn't tell her it might be worse.
JMHO
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You don't have to tell her directly. Just send her a letter. It's not like you don't know her address!
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