Thread: Im out of here too-Gone to the other site because of all of the crap going on here.

And after all the other lies from you, we should just start believing you now?

And it wasn't just a matter of someone telling us something either, especially not MM, she didn't tell me anything.

She's done a hell of lot better job of getting members to BBS than you or Brandon have. I'd say she's done her job well here.

So which mod told you all that crap, I see at least 2 of them here denying it. that only leaves Butterfli and lasss. So which one are you accusing?

Originally Posted by Fred12

Mom2jal (and Katt) are the reason this board is even still here. And this is the the thanks she gets? What is wrong with her having her own forum with freebies on it?

And how is that a conflict of interest? That makes no sense at all.

An attorney that is representing someone can't help out someone on the other side, that would be a conflict of interest? How is Mom2jal having "freebies" on her site a "conflict of interest"? What conflict? Please explain.

And if you are truthful I think even you would admit that calling people names is childish. I am asking for you to please remove the word 'traitor' from under her screen name. It is doing nothing but making you look like a little spoiled boy and it is making people leave. We have known her and loved her for a long time now. You are stirring up crap, do you not see that? If you are man enough to go to Iraq to help our military you should be man enough to do this.

~ A Desert Storm veteran

Thank you and ITA!!
Very well said!

Originally Posted by Patchouli

I know it wasn't you or Teri so that only leaves one person.

Just to set the record straight....

I did leave Jon a msg yesterday. Those of us who are mods/admins at both places, have to choose where we want to be a mod at. I msg him and said I would like to stay here and that was the extent of our conversation. I support M2J, but I would also hate to leave this place.

It absolutely was not me who said that I did not like the other forum or that I didn't like how she handled things... to be honest, I personally don't think she has done anything wrong... especially wrong enough to warrant being banned. I do like it at Mad.... I like ALL the forums I am a member of.

I have been working a lot and need to catch up on everything.... but I just want to make sure there are no doubts about my feelings about how things went. Just because I decide to stay here as a mod does not mean that I agree with how everything went.

Originally Posted by April

You all do know, right, that this a BOARD? None of us, or let's say very few of us, actually know each other. Choose one, choose the other. But build a bridge and get over it.

Actually, for the older ones---the ones really affected deep down by this---we DO know each other. You cant visit with people, day in and day out for over 7 years and not "know" them. We have been through thick and thin, better or worse, richer and poorer......sound like we are married, but its about that way. I have made SEVERAL IRL friends on here and I know I am NOT in the minority.

Call it whatever you like guys.. I'm not deleting this thread, nor should any mod. I'd prefer if people were as open and upfront about topics like these even when there aren't drama blowouts.

By the way, thanks to everyone PM'ing me about the Iraq thing, I appreciate it more than you know. I'm doing it because I think it's the right thing to do. I donate A LOT of money each year to the USO, and I figured it was time I do something in person, rather than write a check and hope it does something. I'm doing it for them, not me, and I'm sure when I get back I'll be emotionally drained from it. I'm not afraid one bit for my personal safety there as I know I'll be with some really great people. I'll be visiting Fallujah, the Green Zone, Bagdhad, etc. I'll also be visiting the wounded soldiers in Germany and Kuwait to give them motivational and inspirational speeches on life after being in combat and coming home as a civilian.

With all due respect guys, look at how you argue and bullshit on here, and then look at what people are going through out there or in less fortunate situations. Instead of bitching here, get yourself up, go outside and take a breather next time before you respond. Or do something good for a change, go volunteer to send care packages to the troops instead of just saying "oh that's a really nice thing you're doing". I hate to mix the two topics, because one has nothing to do with the other, but seriously, many of you need a serious reality check before you sit here and bitch about something that is just SO silly.

Jon, I have never spoken to you before and if you will check my past posts up until today, I NEVER rock the boat, I always choose to use my back button before gtting snarky with ANYONE but, you know, you labeled someone I have known for a LONG time a Traitor. Why? I do not know Jaime (Is that how you spell it?)IRL, but I DO know someone who does know her and admires her greatly. THAT is what is so silly. You are worried about what we do and how silly we are, but you are acting pretty darned silly yourself.

Maybe the next time before you start to do something like this bullshit, you'll step outside & take a breather before you do. Works both ways.

I've know MM for over 7 years, here and at other places over the years. And to see that title under her name pisses me off so bad. If it wasn't for her and Katt, you would not have 1/2 the active members you have now.

And I think it's great that you're going to Iraq. but maybe you need a serious reality check before you sit here and DO something that is just SO silly, as what you did to MM.

Ok, I'm done. We knew that you could care less for the members here, we saw that in just the last few weeks, before any of this shit started. I guess this just drives the point home. But it's also served to open some members eyes, so that when we see things that you post on here, we know about how much stock to put in it.

I don't recall anyone asking for the thread to be deleted, just the word "tratior" under Mom2jals name.

I've done something nice I gave my time to my country I served in the military. I have been emotionaly and physicaly drained, many times.

I am still doing nice things, every single day. I have a website for sick kids www.bridgeofdreams.org I spend hours and hours trying to put a smile on their faces. I could write a book on the things I do for these kids.

I don't normally agrue, you can look at all my posts and see that. But this is just wrong! The "SO silly" thing is your putting "tratior" under her screen name. Resorting to name calling is childish. I personaly would have more respect for you if you would remove it.

Originally Posted by Jon

Call it whatever you like guys.. I'm not deleting this thread, nor should any mod. I'd prefer if people were as open and upfront about topics like these even when there aren't drama blowouts.

By the way, thanks to everyone PM'ing me about the Iraq thing, I appreciate it more than you know. I'm doing it because I think it's the right thing to do. I donate A LOT of money each year to the USO, and I figured it was time I do something in person, rather than write a check and hope it does something. I'm doing it for them, not me, and I'm sure when I get back I'll be emotionally drained from it. I'm not afraid one bit for my personal safety there as I know I'll be with some really great people. I'll be visiting Fallujah, the Green Zone, Bagdhad, etc. I'll also be visiting the wounded soldiers in Germany and Kuwait to give them motivational and inspirational speeches on life after being in combat and coming home as a civilian.

With all due respect guys, look at how you argue and bullshit on here, and then look at what people are going through out there or in less fortunate situations. Instead of bitching here, get yourself up, go outside and take a breather next time before you respond. Or do something good for a change, go volunteer to send care packages to the troops instead of just saying "oh that's a really nice thing you're doing". I hate to mix the two topics, because one has nothing to do with the other, but seriously, many of you need a serious reality check before you sit here and bitch about something that is just SO silly.

OMG no you didnt get off your high horse... Do you think you know any of us here ??? WTH you know because your going over to "serve" a month and you get to leave on your own damn free will that makes you someone special?? How do you know what we do on our spare time how about the ones who go to the soup kitchens every week or spend time with the elderly or the sick kids in the hospitals? My BIL spent 18 months in that hell hole and you know what I didnt just send him a care pack but random care packages and i know several people who have loved ones here who are serving that send them. You want a damn reality check how about living with a 14 y\o child who is sick and is never going to get better ?? How is that reality for you? Walk in someone else shoes for a day