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    Angry my ex

    keeps an eye on me daily,he's so afraid i will find some one new.we talked about this ealier about a week ago. you know things like having me watched,mental abuse when we were married separted and now divorced. he doesnt want anyone to look at me see me touch me,talk to me,i was raped when we were married and he had me followed for 6 months by his lets say city friends(so i cover my own butt.). he's told me if he wants me dead it can happen in min. he's one of those guys who is perfect to other people,but crazy nuts behind their backs.please dont tell me to move as i dont have the money,i work hard just to pay my bills and not depend on no -one but me. im just asking qs here and hoping to get some info to help myself. thanks everyone ann mental and physical abuse is the worse kinds of abuse in the world.besides child abuse,and ive had all 3. i dont feel sorry for myself i just want to help myself.thanks i hope this explains some- its called fatal attraction and ex wife abuse!!!! and i dont deserve it.

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    I had a high pitched sound coming from someplace, It was driving me crazy, I checked everything... I couldn't figure it out..Finally, my son looked in the bathroom in the linen closet, and in the very back was a smoke detector and the battery was almost dead.. that was it.....never heard the noise again.. So maybe check your smoke detectors, the batteries might be dying..
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    msmom79 I didn't mean anything by the question I was just really curious. I never thought any one was watching me so I wanted to know if I was missing something. Like some kind of clue or whatever. I am sorry you have to deal with this.
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    Most states have laws regarding surveillience. I don't see which one you are in, so I cannot help you there, but I would check the laws regarding this in your state, and then contact the local authorities to see what they can do to help you.
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    {{{{{msmom79}}}}}
    I pm'd you!
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    just because you have no money doesn't mean you can't move, contact your nearest battered womens sheltor, salvation army, ministry , charity, or a church. tell them he knows where you are and is stalking you and giving you death threats and that he is involved with people who would carry them out. some one will help you, they can pay for you to relocate, leagally change your name nad have them seal the record, now start your life over. i would really think about seriously doing this, i have heard horror stories about people in your situation who just sat there and took it because they thought they had to or because the police wouldn't help them and they didn't know what else to do. you always have a choice. most of the women who remained where they were didn't make out so well, don't be one of them. as for advise about the bug i would ask radio shack, they may have something or know of something that could detect it. have you tried removing everything from the room, one thing at a time? process of illimination, once everything is gone than start checking under the carpets and in the out lets(unscrw face plate and remove, see if there is anything in there besides the outlet and 3 wires-if you see something your not sure of, call an electrition) check in the furnace vents, just strip the room. before you do this make sure you know it's coming from that room, sounds can be tricky, they travel funny because they bounce off of things, we had an odd noice here and it turned out to be a toy with dying batteries

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    Call the fire department, if you have a bad circuit it could catch on fire. And if you are being bugged maybe they will find it. I wouldn't say anything to them about your suspecions and see what they come up with. Either way it should be checked out.

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    Talking THANKS EVERYONE

    I HAVE BEEN MEANING TO GET BACK TO YOU ALL AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS AND IDEAS,AND EVEN THE ONES WHO HAVE PRIVATELY EMAILED ME--I HAVE BEEN AT WORK ALOT AND I WILL DO ALOT OF THESE THINGS MYSELF AND MAYBE WITH THE HELP OF SOME OF MY FRIENDS.JUST WANTED TO SAY THANKS TO YOU ALL ANN (MSMOM79) OH AND IM NOT AFRAID TO POST WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME,IF IT SAVES ONE PERSON FROM GOING THROUGH WHAT IM GOING THROUGH,THEN IT IS SO WORTH IT TO ME,AND I ALSO FEEL IT IS MORE OUT IN THE OPEN AND ALOT OF PEOPLE KNOW ABOUT IT,IT HELPS ME TO BE ABLE TO TALK ABOUT THIS STUFF INSTEAD OF KEEPING IT ALL BOTTLED UP ANN A BIG,BIG THANK YOU TO YOU ALL

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    Go to womens shelter (they will meet you, go in a store and out the back lay down in a friends car seat and have them drive you to meet the people at the battered wifes shelter)they have many secret locations with state of the art security, go and get yourself sent to another one in a city where you might like to live or already have a job, you can apply over the internet, you may be even able to ship your stuff to one (important things like clothes and computers, keepsakes) sell the rest and run don't walk! they should be able to help you change your name legally, my uncle had to do this they had his name listed wrong on his birth certificate, anyway nobody likes their name so you get to choose one you like but entirely different than the one you own now. Good Luck!
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