Thread: Out of curiosity

For those that have read what I have typed, and for those that have talked to me, what do you HONESTLY think about me? Do I seem like this horrible uncaring witch? or a kind person? etc. Im asking because I took a few personallity tests this week, all of them make me out to be some sort of careing thoughtfull person. but yet, in real life, im either being called a name of one thing or another, or having people that I have considred friends just up and not talk to me. I was wondering your perspective, from what you know of me from here. and I am asking for BRUTAL TRUTH. and If you hate me and want to tell me thats fine with me too as im asking for the truth, no need to explaine why, but if you want to go right ahead. if need be pm me and let me know if you have something really nasty to say and dont want mods/ other to see it. that is fine with me, *MODS I hearby relequish your rights to ban anyone for what they may call, write etc to me. I am asking this willingly of everyone* ok? Im kind of confused right now and really need to know what people think of me honestly instead of putting on a face. AND NO ONE is to bash anyone else for their OPINIONS in here! do and ill get a wet noodle to lash you all with!

Don't you think you are being a little to hard on yourself?

its the wet noodle lashings, that will get you called some names every time.
I don't really know you because I'm barely here, but you seem ok to me.

I don't see any reason that someone would have a problem with you. YOu seem like a nice person. If anyone does say something bad to you or about you, that doesn't say very much for that person now does it?

Popular???????? that is a scary word.....if you have true friends and really want to stay their true friends you will never always do the things to be popular with them. sometimes friends make the wrong decisions and to be the person we need to be we tell them something that makes us unpopular with them.....it starts in your heart and that is where you need to be the most popular...and yes mam you seem like a pretty cool gal to me....

Thank you all.
Its not about being popular, Or trying to impress anyone. I was really just wondering. I am pushing 30 right now, and was curious as to what people had thought of me. I have tried to be nice to everyone I come in contact with ( treat others how you would like to be treated ). I dont take much to heart from personallity test's either, but was curious as to how I am percieved to other people.
I am quite depressed right now, I do, like most have a lot going on here. And was wondering if I was pushing my views on other people and making them upset as I have a tendency to do so when I get my 'feathers ruffled'.
I have lost several VERY close friends of many years ( some as much as 19 years )just out of the blue not to tragedy, just because of life. But I was wanting to see if I had a tendency to push others away, or draw them near me.
Everyone needs to know they are liked, or have friends or acquaintances they can count on, or some sort of shouler to lean on. I have seen recently where many have thought that they were bad people do to something or another. Curiosity killed the cat I guess.

I am not usually the type of person who cares about what other people think, but as of recently it has become important to me.After speaking to one person on here ( not on BBS ), I was wondering if somehow the life I have outside the computer had taken some sort of effect on me and how I am twards others. The above was just a question, as I would rather have someone tell me " I hate you" then to say "oh yeah your a sweet girl " then turn arround and talk as If I was some monster, which has been done before, and I don't like that one bit.

I have NEVER been popular and honestly, I dont care to be. I am quite content with being myself the way I am, I know there is always room for improvement on ones part, and that is why I asked this of every one. I would very much like to improve myself, for myself and for my children.

I do appreciate those that responded to this. It did mean a lot to me to know im not hated all over the world for my views, expressions, and things I believe in, The way I am here where I am at. Trust me, It ment more than you will know. Thank you.

yep, i think you are a great person, just by the way you worded your posts above!