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buglebe · 02-11-2007, 10:48 PM

Re: AP Newsbreak: Zsa Zsa Gabor's husband may be baby's father

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Originally Posted by newwiccan
Why did he wait until now to claim he's the father?

Cause he's a money hungry a$$hole, that's why.

If Zsa Zsa has any pride about herself at all, she will divorce him on the grounds of adultry.
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This quote is from another thread. I just wanted to say if every man or woman divorsed their husband or wife on grounds of adultery, I don't think there would be too many couples left married. I think we would all be shocked to see our neighbors all divorcing. I guess this wasn't worded very good but my thought gets through.

Blondiex46 · 02-11-2007, 10:50 PM

and he said if he is the father he doesn't want to raise the child, wth is that.

nightrider127 · 02-12-2007, 07:31 AM

I'll take credit for part of that quote.

I know that cheating goes on but I don't think it's nearly as widespread as a lot of people thinks it is.

Any woman, or man for that matter, must have a really low opinion of themselves to stay with someone who has publically humiliated (sp) them in this way. My husband and I have been married for almost 38 years. Let me assure anyone that cares to read this that if he was to so much as cheat on me, let alone announce it to the world, he would be out of my life.

Is there any member of this site willing to state that they would put up with this type behavior? Is anyone willing to go through life wondering what people are saying behind their backs because they stayed with a cheater? Is anyone willing to trust someone not to hurt them again after they have pulled a stunt like Zsa Zsas husband has done?

Njean31 · 02-12-2007, 09:04 AM

You never know what you'll do in a situation until you're actually in it.

Pepsi4me · 02-12-2007, 09:08 AM

Zsa Zsa is 90 yrs old!

I have read that she's not well. She's probably too sick to even realize what's going on. Also at age 90 would she want to go through another divorce. She probably married him for companionship & knew about his extramaritial affairs.

pepperpot · 02-12-2007, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by nightrider127

I'll take credit for part of that quote.

I know that cheating goes on but I don't think it's nearly as widespread as a lot of people thinks it is.

Any woman, or man for that matter, must have a really low opinion of themselves to stay with someone who has publically humiliated (sp) them in this way. My husband and I have been married for almost 38 years. Let me assure anyone that cares to read this that if he was to so much as cheat on me, let alone announce it to the world, he would be out of my life.

Is there any member of this site willing to state that they would put up with this type behavior? Is anyone willing to go through life wondering what people are saying behind their backs because they stayed with a cheater? Is anyone willing to trust someone not to hurt them again after they have pulled a stunt like Zsa Zsas husband has done?

I agree with you. Especially if it is taken as 'no big dea, he/she won't leave me'....'what' do they have to lose? Where's the deterent??

In another 'lifetime' I was deceived beyond belief! My husband knows all about it (this was before him) and he also knows, that I would never tolerate anything that remotely resembles it.

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Originally Posted by Njean31

You never know what you'll do in a situation until you're actually in it.

I agree withyou as well, I have sometimes found myself accepting things I never thought I would (not cheating tho)....although I would not sit in silence and be spoon fed poop!

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Originally Posted by Pepsi4me

Zsa Zsa is 90 yrs old!

I have read that she's not well. She's probably too sick to even realize what's going on. Also at age 90 would she want to go through another divorce. She probably married him for companionship & knew about his extramaritial affairs.

Here again I absolutely see your point. At 90, she may be 'incapable' of 'fullfilling' her husband's needs (he's much younger) and so she 'accepts' that he 'gets it elsewhere'......however, there is no need for the public humiliation. Who are we to judge a 90 year old's decision? (If it is her decision to accept this)

nightrider127 · 02-12-2007, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Njean31

You never know what you'll do in a situation until you're actually in it.

I have to partially agree with you. I think a lot of us have put up with stuff that we never thought we would put up with.

Where I draw the line is cheating. I know that i would never be able to trust my husband again. To me, no trust = no marriage.

cavemtmomma · 02-12-2007, 11:04 PM

Not only is Zsa Zsa elderly, she has also been in a car accident in 2002 that left her partially paralyzed and she's had a stroke. At her age she's probably grateful to be left alone.

queenangie · 02-13-2007, 03:15 PM

I figured he announced it to get his 15 minutes of fame
and a chance at some $$$$.

YankeeMary · 02-13-2007, 11:36 PM

I wouldn't put up with cheating, mainly for 2 reasons, one being diseases, two, who wants to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you?

As for Zsa Zsa I imagine she is just thankful that she doesn't have to have sex with that putz.