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Old 06-20-2005, 01:27 PM   #694 (permalink)
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Re: Appeals court: Terri Schiavo parents cannot intervene

I don't think Terri was suffering. Those who say she was a vegtable. How can a vegtable suffer? She didn't know what was going on, she didn't care what was going on. Why was she pushed to die? Her husband wanted her dead that is all. He could have gone on with his life, divorced her quietly and gone on with his new family. That is what I do not understand. Her parents would have taken care of her so what was the big deal?

Now her parents are suffering big time. Her widower is happy to go on with his life and his new family keeping her ashes in a secret place not telling anyone what has hapened to them and not burying her so her parents could go to a place to decorate and greive. He isn't mister kind heart to me.
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Old 06-20-2005, 02:03 PM   #695 (permalink)
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Re: Appeals court: Terri Schiavo parents cannot intervene

You don't understand? He was fullfilling her wishes.

What would have been the point of keeping her alive?
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Old 06-20-2005, 06:58 PM   #696 (permalink)
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Re: Appeals court: Terri Schiavo parents cannot intervene

I believe that Terri told him not to keep her alive in that state.
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Old 06-20-2005, 10:11 PM   #697 (permalink)
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Re: Appeals court: Terri Schiavo parents cannot intervene

Schiavo's Cremated Remains Buried in Fla.

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TAMPA, Fla. (AP) - The cremated remains of Terri Schiavo, the severely brain-damaged woman who died after her feeding tube was removed in March, were buried Monday in a Clearwater cemetery.

The burial failed, however, to bring a close to the Schiavo saga. Instead, acrimony flared anew, with her parents complaining that they were not notified beforehand about the service.

Michael Schiavo, who said he promised his wife he would not keep her alive artificially and waged a long legal battle to remove her feeding tube, had the words "I kept my promise" inscribed on her bronze grave marker.

The marker also lists Feb. 25, 1990 - the day she collapsed and fell into what most doctors said was an irreversible vegetative state - as the date Schiavo "Departed this Earth."

Schiavo actually died March 31, nearly two weeks after her feeding tube was removed by court order. The marker lists that date as when Schiavo was "at peace."

David Gibbs, an attorney for the woman's parents, Bob and Mary Schindler, decried the words on the marker.

"Obviously, that's a real shot and another unkind act toward a grieving mom and dad," Gibbs said.

Two days after Terri Schiavo's death, the 41-year-old was cremated and her husband, Michael Schiavo, was given possession of her remains.

The husband had said her ashes would be buried at a family plot in Pennsylvania. But on Monday his attorney, George Felos, said in a statement that the service and interment had taken place at Sylvan Abbey Memorial Park in Clearwater.

The statement did not explain why Michael Schiavo, who lives near Clearwater, decided to keep his wife's remains in Florida. He did not return a phone call seeking additional information.

Schiavo's parents had opposed her cremation and hoped to bury her in their adopted state of Florida. Services for Schiavo already had been conducted in nearby Gulfport, where her parents live, and in Pennsylvania, where she grew up.

The Schindlers' attorney said the family was notified by fax only after Monday's service, when the family had already started getting calls from reporters.

Felos' statement said the Schindlers were notified of the service and burial.

A pond and fountain also mark the woman's grave, where the flat bronze marker was festooned with flowers Monday evening.

Terri Schiavo collapsed in 1990 after a chemical imbalance caused her heart to stop. She left no written instructions in the event she became disabled, and her husband said she never would have wanted to be kept alive in what court-appointed doctors called a persistent vegetative state with no hope of recovery.

Her parents, however, doubted she had any such end-of-life wishes. They maintained she would benefit from rehabilitation, despite most doctors saying her condition was irreversible.

The seven-year battle engulfed the courts, Congress, the White House and divided the country.
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Re: Appeals court: Terri Schiavo parents cannot intervene

Even when you have a living will it can be changelled. Her parents wanted to take care of her. Her siblings wanted to take care of her. What was the harm? He already got the settlement money and spent it on himself and his new family.

No wonder the parents changed their mind about him when he started up with another woman and had a family and then kept them from seeing their daughter. I would be sick if I had a SIL like him. At that point he should have stepped out of the picture.

She was cremated only three days after she died? I will never believe they could have done a through autopsy on her in that time frame.

Now her parents are dealt the final insult by not being able to go to the service for her. I pray they will be able to have one of their own at her burial sight and not be kept away.
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Old 06-20-2005, 11:14 PM   #699 (permalink)
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Re: Appeals court: Terri Schiavo parents cannot intervene

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She was cremated only three days after she died? I will never believe they could have done a through autopsy on her in that time frame.

Now her parents are dealt the final insult by not being able to go to the service for her. I pray they will be able to have one of their own at her burial sight and not be kept away.
My son died on Wednesday, they had completed the autopsy and released his body by Thursay afternoon. All autopsies are done by the same certain medical standards and procedures, it only takes a few hours to complete one.

Her parents have already had two services for her, one in FL and one in PA. If I were in Michael's place, I'm not sure I would have wanted them there either.
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Even when you have a living will it can be changelled. Her parents wanted to take care of her. Her siblings wanted to take care of her. What was the harm? He already got the settlement money and spent it on himself and his new family.

No wonder the parents changed their mind about him when he started up with another woman and had a family and then kept them from seeing their daughter. I would be sick if I had a SIL like him. At that point he should have stepped out of the picture.

She was cremated only three days after she died? I will never believe they could have done a through autopsy on her in that time frame.

Now her parents are dealt the final insult by not being able to go to the service for her. I pray they will be able to have one of their own at her burial sight and not be kept away.
What was the harm? How about..going against her wishes?
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She was cremated only three days after she died? I will never believe they could have done a through autopsy on her in that time frame.
How long do you think an autopsy takes?
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Old 06-21-2005, 08:18 AM   #702 (permalink)
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Re: Appeals court: Terri Schiavo parents cannot intervene

He spent the money on her care. Nursing homes, rehab, doctors, none of that is free. And she wasn't in some awful place. She was receiving good care where she was. Do you have any idea what the cost is for a good nursing home these days? Almost a years salary for some people.

As far as the cremation goes, he did the right thing. That puts an end to her parents demanding that she be dug up so that they can do what they want with the body. And they don't have the right. The courts decided that over and over again. And even Bush can't go against a court ruling.

And I sure as heck would not have had her parents and their right to life group at any sort of funeral or memorial service. They put Michael through hell and back and they were turned down over and over again by the courts. If they were on death row making appeals, they would have been put to death long before this. Michael did what he could for his wife. He loved her enough to let her go. Her parents were wrong to keep her alive just because they could.

The autopsy said it all. She was blind and brain dead. She could not feed herself or swallow. I feel for her parents because they were so obsessed with keeping her alive that now that it's over what will they do. I am happy for Michael that he was able to fulfill his wife's final wish. He has stood by her and he didn't give up either. I hope that the rest of his life is peaceful.
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Old 06-21-2005, 08:34 AM   #703 (permalink)
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Even when you have a living will it can be changelled. Her parents wanted to take care of her. Her siblings wanted to take care of her. What was the harm? He already got the settlement money and spent it on himself and his new family.
The harm was, is that an American woman was having her rights violated. The harm was, that by keeping her body alive was costing tax payers money. It would have been different if there was hope for her but there wasn't. There was no settlement, it was a lawsuit from my understanding but it was spent on Terri's care and on attorney fees. No on his new woman, stop pulling stuff out of the air....geezzz...so much for respect for the dead. I think it is such a shame that Terri's memory means so little to others. Is it to hard to try to imagine that Micheal loved her enough to let her go? That he loved her enough to not allow her to lay there like that any more? I like to think that LOVE for Terri is what inspired Micheal to make it through all of this. I like thinking that when Terri died she knew the love of a good man and knew the feelings of being needed.
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Old 06-21-2005, 09:59 AM   #704 (permalink)
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Re: Appeals court: Terri Schiavo parents cannot intervene

i must be cold hearted. but i would not want to live like that. how is that living. if couldnt hear my kids. see them, touch them,love them like they needed to be. what good would i be doing them. she wasnt feeling anything. she no means breathing on her own. doing anything on her own. how long should someone stay in that kind of shape before someone says enough is enough. she lived her life the best she could while she was around. this all doesnt mean her husband isnt loving her any less. yes he does need to go on. he couldnt hold to some thing the rest of his that wasnt there.
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