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Old 06-27-2009, 04:52 PM   #36 (permalink)
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Please change the code on your garage door opener, or disconnect it all together. Change the locks on your doors and find out what you need to do to bar him from the house since he abandoned you. Get a new bank account, in your name only. If you have a joint account, remove his name - or if he took all the cash out of that one, & you don't get direct deposit - remove your name. Put a stop on all ATM cards. Make sure you are NOT on the hook, if he does anything financially stupid. If you have joint charge accounts put a stop on the cards & if you can, remove one of your names from the acct. If it's his acct & his responsibility - take your name off, if it's your acct & your responsibility - cancel his card immediately.
I am so very sorry this happened.

I will be hoping & praying for your strength.
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