jasmine, I'm praying that God will show you the way. You and your children need out of that situation. I don't for one minute think God wants us to put up with an abusive man whether it be mental or physical. My SIL was being mentally abused and I have stood behind her and supported her as she filed for and is going through her divorce. I'm sure your family and friends will be there for you also. Remember we are here for you too.