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Originally Posted by janelle
And this is a situation for adoption as well. When will people stop making children the pawns of fixing problems. You will always have that, abortion or not. Also some people 'FIND GOD" and straighren out their lives when children come along. That happens a lot so we never know how God will work. The woman was taken a chance and I think she still needs to try to keep her family together but if not possible then she needs to leave him and find a good man to father that child. That happend a lot too. Killing does not answer anything but it sure does diminish us.
My hubby wnats to add---"is that the child'sfault"? Does the child have to die cause of the parents life choices"? Adoption into a family who will love and protect the child is the answer, not killing it.
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Well in the situation of our 'friends' in Florida abortion was not the answer, then again neither was getting married. And no abortion was not the answer for the couple who purposely miscarried the child, adoption was. Abortion doesn't work in either cases. but if it is an option someone wishes to explore ie. rape or incest then it is something that should be available, as well as adoption.
A child doesn't have to die. And it depends on ones defantion of a child. If some one is two weeks pregnant, doesn't know it, smokes heavily and drink and the cells are destroyed or 'aborted' then should criminal charges follow? No. There is no child at that stage only a potential for life.
What would society rather have people swinging bats, or going and having it done professionally? I know I know you're saying neither, but these are choices people face. It is the reality.
As for finding GOD when achild is born, that depends on the person. I've been told that I would find GOD or have a growing faith if I lost someone close to me or I have child, i've hed both I've felt nothing. There is nothing wrong with having a belief in a higher power you have the right, just as do to not have one, or if one never comes along. People don't want their beliefs put down others don't want beliefs thrown in other peoples faces.
Chrisitans live with higher expectations, how many times have you done or said something and someone looked at you and said 'that's not very Christian of you'? No one looks and says that to me, because I don't openly express a faith. That's why a lot lof people come under fire all the time, there is resentment of abortion but at the same time pro capital punishment. Hmmmmm. LOL!
