Thanks guys. Just needed to reassure myself I'm doing
the right thing here. MIL and her ex live 700 miles
away so they can't watch her and she won't give up
her dot even temporarily. She has dug herself in a hole
buying things she can't afford, new car, tv, leather recliner, etc.
I want to see her do well, but I have my limits too. MIL is
advising her to take the job 3rd shift. She told sil that I
would give in if she had no one else. Sorry but I'm not, will
keep you updated and thanks again.
