I'm a firm beliver in doing nice things for nice things sake. Period. When I donate things, I don't get receipts - I'm not doing it for the tax write-off. When I give things to people, I don't need to see my name in a church bulletin, or recieve a thank you card, or sometimes, quite frankly, even have the person know who gave/sent him/her the gift or needed item. I like doing things for people. I like picking out something I think someone will like or be able to use, and I like knowing that I can ease a worry or bring a smile to someone's face. The thank you isn't why I do it. It's not even "an added bonus" or "something nice." If I do something and expect something in return, then that to me seems like a duty or a chore. If someone says thank you, well now, that's just fine, but I don't expect it or need it.
And BTW Jessica, I have a Nicholas too
