this is a prime example of the world we live in. i am so thankful that i have instilled this in my kids. even the baby can have the sense enough to thank someone for things they do and even in the correct context. there is no reason for such disregard for someone who does something for you. I feel you should let us all know who this is so that we don't fall for the same line. that is really a misuse and who knows that she really did NEED the things you gave her. please don't let this discourage you. you did a good thing and it will come back to you. HEY HOW ABOUT A RAOK FOR YOU!!! send me your addy and it is on its way.
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